So I dated a boy who is a sophmore when I was a senior(Highschool) from september to end of december this year. I'm not going to lie some of it was total hell, but for three weeks out of it all it was complete bliss and those 3 weeks had to be the greatest three weeks I have ever had with a boy (not having sex but just having each other)
It's been over forever now and we have fought and been friends and every emotion u can possibly imagin has gone by us. Both of us have seem other people since but none of the guys have compared to him and when I kiss them all i can imagin are that there his wonderful lips i was sucking on agein.
He is dating this 16 year old girl right now who has had about 16 partners in sex and it kills me when i see them together. We are now like extreamly good friends and we visit each other every night to talk about everything.
I'm leaving for college soon I am sure he is the only boy I have ever loved Should I tell him befor i'm gone. when? where? how?
2006-06-13 11:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't want to date him we are done I'm leaving i want someone else but should I tell him that i love him and care about him before I go
2006-06-13 11:24:00 · update #1
Well, if you don't want to date him and you're already friends, sharing these feelings will probably complicate things and confuse the situation. But, if you're willing to deal with that confusion, I think you should tell him. I believe that honesty is best when it comes to matters of the heart.
Here's the deal, you don't want to be 50 years old wondering, "what would have happened differently if I had just been honest?", do you? Just prepare yourself for the fact that you are risking the loss of a friend, and you may not get the reaction you are wanting, whatever that may be. But, at least you'll have the satisfaction of getting things off your chest.
2006-06-13 11:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by blahblahgrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the reson he msy be seeing this girl is to get over u or probably because shes a hoe and puts out. seems like yall care about eachother enought that u can tell him anything. if i were u yes tell him before u go because if u dont u will always feel there was never a closer between yall. and u never know he may be feeling the same way about u as u do him. he may be waitting for the oppertunity to tell u. but i would definatly let him know how much he meant to u and how much he still means to u and that even if it is over forever i just want u to know u were something very dear to my heart and im moving on to collage and i wish u luck in all that u do but i would like to remain friends. u never know in time he may realize u are what he wanted the whole intire time. but dont ever say goodbye goodbyes are forever just say cya later but give him the best going away present give it up to him. that is probably what he is wanting a more serious relationship good luck to ya hun
2006-06-13 18:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by ford_lovergirl_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to be ur friend
2006-06-13 18:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by cundiff234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋