I am a male, 27. I have never had sex, or kissed even. Some people still consider marriage sacred, I am one of them. I am also a Christian, even though that doesn't seem to mean much anymore. There are more of us than you think, most of my friends are the same way. I'm not ugly either, I'm thin, muscled, and tan. I am also intelligent, and not indoctrinated. There doesn't seem to be anyone left willing to take on this subject anymore. Certainly not from an intelligent perspective..
As a Christian I believe that marriage was the FIRST institution created by God for men and women. Before church, before democracy or any other organization. As such I treat it accordingly. These things don't belong to me, but to the one who made me.
2006-06-13 11:23:55
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answered by Anonymous
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My boyfriend and I are waiting to have sex until we are married, we've been together for three years. I'm still a virgin, and plan to stay that way until the day i say i do. You can't really miss something if it's never happened. Two weeks in to our relationship I told my boyfriend, who is four years older than me, that I just want to let you know that I am wanting to wait until I get married, and he said that he respects me for my decision, so we made a promise to each other that we would wait. And three years later we are living together (in separate rooms) and I know that he really loves and respects me because we've stayed true to our promise. I would never want to be with a man who's had sex with many woman because when we eventually did have sex he would be comparing me to other woman. I want my first time to be an incredible experience, with someone that I can share my first time and last time with, the rest of my life.
2006-06-13 18:34:54
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answered by brittnrich 1
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Yes...and it's something to be proud of. Sex is much more than the physical act. It is sacred. It can also cloud your judgment in a non committed relationship (marriage).
Too many bad things can happen when you have sex out of marriage (fornication)...disease and unwanted pregnancy top the list.
Many years ago (60's) you could have sex and if you caught a STD you could go to the doctor and get a shot. In the 70's the disease became like baggage (herpes) and you have it for life. In the 80's it got much worse...and now it destroys families and has killed many...AIDS.
When it comes to unwanted pregnancy, there are so many unwanted and unloved children in this world. That is if they weren't already aborted. Birth isn't the beginning of life, it's the arrival!
Stay pure for you spouse and you'll have NO regrets...
Grace to you and God Bless...
2006-06-13 18:35:52
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answered by Salvation is a gift, Eph 2:8-9 6
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Yes
2006-06-13 18:19:56
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answered by Liz B 2
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Darn those flower children of the 60s and 70s (I was one). Mke love, not war was the theme song, and it took off and ran.
My son did not; his ex-wife did. She was very proud and convicted in her beliefs about premarital sex (both of them are Roman Catholics).
I know of several people. And I want to meet HEXGOD. I have a daughter.... LOL
2006-06-13 18:31:15
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answered by U-man 3
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I know of a forty year old woman who's a virgin because she hasn't been married yet.
But nobody else I know waited. And I don't see why we should wait!
2006-06-13 18:23:01
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answered by WithLoveMaura 3
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Some people do
2006-06-13 18:21:07
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answered by justgenius12 7
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I did, now I have sex with lots of women. I guess I shouldn't have waited, I might not be getting divorced.
2006-06-13 18:24:26
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answered by david s 4
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I'm sure some do ... its personal choice (free will if you like) not a right or wrong thing.
Whatever floats folks boats rather than the dogma of others.
Peace out
2006-06-13 18:22:04
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answered by Anonymous
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As the great Benny Hill said, "I don't believe in sex before marraige. And I'm none too sure about after it either."
2006-06-13 18:21:46
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answered by wld_jkr 4
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