2006-06-13 11:12:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its obviously still bugging you so don't try to sweep it under the carpet anymore.. no good in the long run .. talk about it with someone you can trust.
2006-06-13 11:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by M J H 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Something did happen to me as a child (13) and I put it out of my mind. It was only now and again that it came to thought, and recently I found out the same thing happened to 3 other members of my family, we got together and talked about it a while back. We were not sure what to do because of the time gap, and the other person involved has married and has several children. My advice is don't leave it to long before you talk to someone, and if a lot of time has gone by, weigh up the prow's and con's, if something illegal has taken place it should be reported, but if a lot of time has gone by, by reporting it, how many peoples lives will be effected on the wrong do'ers side. You have to decide. I've decided to live with it, as to many people will get hurt. This answer is based on what my imagination is telling me, on what you are referring to.
2006-06-13 19:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Do What You Think Is Right If You Have A Parent Or Someone Special In Your Life Share It With Them If It's Eating You Inside Talk To Someone You Trust
2006-06-13 18:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by buzurkcats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what is was. If it affects you as a person and you need to talk to someone then you should. I keep things to myself but it always bubbes away inside. Boxing things up and putting them away inside your mind is not good. You may find it haunts you for a long time. Things dont just go away.
On the other hand if it isnt important then dont. I broke on of my mums best china cups when I was 13 and glued it back together and 12 years on she still doesnt know. No harm!!
2006-06-13 18:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by carolyn s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell someone cause if you dont it will keep haunting you and you need to take it off your chest. Even though it was 27 years ago, find someone you can really trust and let them know what it is just find someone to talk to just so you can let it out you would probably feel a little better.
2006-06-13 18:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by plopez_74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone.. probably best with a stranger (professional though) so if you wish you hadnt spoken about it you can just walk away. They are more likely to give you sound advice as well.
If you are still living with it after 27 years then you DO need to sort it out.
Good luck
2006-06-13 19:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking now after 27 years it has obviously affected you deeply find someone you can trust and tell them about it. If you dont knopw anyone you feel you can trust see your doctor and ask for a referal to a councillor
2006-06-14 08:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by mumoftheyear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've spent a lot of time in personal development and therapeutic groups, sharing my pain. I'm always amazed at how good my life has become. So many people out there are wonderful.
Trust your own instinct. x
2006-06-13 18:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Chubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a person who will always respect you and be there for you that way when you tell that person what happened to you they will understand and Help you.
2006-06-13 18:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose get some help to conquer that baddness in your head... unless its so bad you need the justice system to sort it out... but let me advise you they have a tenderacy to fail at the moment.
2006-06-13 18:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋