my parents own a business and thats how i met my boyfriend. [ he works there too!] We have been dating for 9 months. Now my dad want to fire him for a stupid reason. My dad told me that i cant see him again after he leaves. Wut do i do?
i love him so much but am i wrong if i leave with him or should i stay with my parents and leave the person i love?
2006-06-13 11:05:26 · 14 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't listen to parents. Love cant keep you both away.
If you trully love him, you wouldnt ask this in the first place.
You would realize that Love Never fails.
2006-06-13 11:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by inthisskin22x 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There has to be a reason your dad doesn't want you with him.
Just remember he only wants what'll be best for u.
keep that in mind. Now i don't know how old u r but love is a powerful thing that just can't be broken in a day thats something your dad has to understand.
Good luck
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2006-06-13 20:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off are you over the age of 18? if yes why would your father put you in such a hard spot? did you try talking to your mother about it all ? you need to do what makes you happy if you really love him and you know he's going to stick by you go with him but be sure he's going to stick by you. one more question is the job a really good one and is there a good future there for you ? i would talk to your parents and boyfriend and see where you stand
2006-06-13 18:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by sunburyrick66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad to grow up. He's making a business decision to fire your boyfriend, tell him to keep it on a professional level. Let your dad know you respect his decision to get rid of your boyfriend but it should not interfere with your personal relationship with him.
2006-06-13 18:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Curt P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your under 16 stay home. If your a mature adult, you wouldn't have asked this question. If he loves you and wants you to go, go by all means. Your parents will always be there, and they will always love you, no matter what. If you have a chance at love, you can't lose.
2006-06-13 18:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 9 months is not too long of a time. What do you want? Have you weighed the outcome of both; staying or going? What's best? Worse?
2006-06-13 18:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by nici a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love the guy your Dad firing him shouldnt break you apart. I say play your fathers hand and calls his bluff. Tell him that you choose to be with your BF and that no one can tell you who your going to be with. Look deep down inside your self and ask if your truely care for your BF. Remember Family is forever no matter what you do they will always be there for you.
2006-06-13 18:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by russellduckett@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with your family because a boy comes and go but something that will always remains is your family and your family was there before that boy came in the picture, i was in the same boat you are in now but i knew that my family will always be there through thick and thin.
2006-06-13 18:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by lady bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may sound like a stupid reason to you because you say you love him. it was probably the right decision from your father. trust your parents, they usually know the best for you, if the boy loves you too than he will find another job and prove himself to you and your father, and he will try to earn your parent's approval.
2006-06-13 18:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by OnceAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten dad with you quitting also, especially if his reason for firing your love interest is wrong.
Then he will listen to what you have to say.
Parents are so pig-headed sometimes, you know!
2006-06-13 18:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋