Why are wives so demanding of their husbands?

Question

My wife is always asking me to do stuff and correcting me. Are all women like this?

Answer 1

no they come with all kinds of different personalities

Answer 2

It seems like your wife is asking you for help and that is okay she is only asking she is not demanding! Don't you ask her to do things? Asking is one thing but demanding and harshness is just wrong. You should also do things that she would like you to do once in a while and lovingly do it. She only corrects you if she feels need to and is trying to help you. My wife does not demand she asks me and i ask her too... We love each other and she is not demanding and cruel at all.... She does make suggestions once in a while but that is okay and i do at times too. Why are you putting all women into this category. Not all women are the same and men can be just as demanding and mean to their wives.

Answer 3

Not all women are like that, but I am like that. My husband constantly has to be reminded to do everything or it doesnt get done. I usually correct him on things that will cost us money in the long run, for example....washing whites and darks together because then my white clothes are ruined and will need to be replaced.
My sister-in-law lets my brother be a couch potato while she does everything for him that way she knows its done. She doesnt criticize him for not doing stuff around the house. However, she has a 1 yr old and shouldn't have to do everything around the house, she should be able to spend quality time with her little one.
I think women are demanding because we are insecure about change. If you do something differently, it could disturb the norm.

Answer 4

No the most frequent time this happens is in a situation where the husband "enables" the behavior. Surprise her the next time and tell her that you really don't want to do that and if she could do it for you?

Watch the surprised reaction you will get. It may be harsh but as a wife that also does this I really want to see my husband say "NO" not to be the nice guy all the time. It's really a test ;0)

Go figure!

Answer 5

We usually don t ask for more than what we give:


example, my hubby worked wile i was a house wife taking care of our baby,,
now hes unemployed and im working..
fair traid,, for him to look after the baby during the day and night, since i have to wake up early every day.. right..

We may sound demanding but really we dont mean it to be that way, we just want to be apreciated and have a little help every know and then....

sometime like in my case, i have to tell my hubby what to do,, cus otherwise he wont do it..

but yeah i guess we are all a little demanding...

Answer 6

Women have a tendecy to show they care by correcting and helping you. Also women want to be taken care of and often time we have to tell men to do something or it may or may not get done.

Why not talk to your wife about your concerns. And ask her to stop demanding so much. Maybe she is giving you a signal about what is really going on inside her?

K

Answer 7

Think about it this way. If you don't want to take out the garbage, change the baby's diaper, replace furnace filters, why should she want to do it? You shouldn't expect your spouse to do anything that you aren't willing to get up out of your Barka Lounger and do yourself. Maybe she just doesn't want to feel like she's in this thing all by herself while your watching Monday Night Football. Believe me. The more you start doing to help around the house, the less she's going to nitpick about the little things. Lazy and/or inconsiderate husbands tend to turn us wives into raging B*****S.

Answer 8

definite any sexual stress on yet another man or woman no matter if that human being be your baby, spouse, or a stranger, is RAPE. in case you stress your spouse after she instructed you NO, then you absolutely will be held in charge for rape in the courtroom of regulation. Husbands are not any more exempt from this regulation at the same time as appearing on their better halves. as well, if she isn't in the mood, then do what you used to do once you've been in HS (masturbate). or you ought to let her understand that she isn't assembly your needs and that you'll bypass masturbate. or you ought to romance her or provide her better interest or attempt some thing new. tell her you prefer to instigate a lengthy consultation of foreplay only for HER (like quarter-hour or some thing) and in case you let her understand that you're better worried which includes her needs somewhat than your own, it ought to positioned her better in the mood. yet rape is rarely an answer.

Answer 9

What do you mean asking you to do stuff? Like helping out around the house? Like helping with the yard work? Like doing things that she is physically unable to do?
What do you want her to do? Ask the handsome hunk down the street?
Be a man, offer to do things that need to be done. She probably works all day too. She would quit asking if you would offer!
Correcting you? You need to explain what you mean by this...too little information.

Answer 10

i think so. i like it when my hubby, does things for me, and i do what he asks also, i don't ignore him either. another thing though, it depends on what she asks of you. if you see she's tired and asks you to clean off the table, then do your part. not 50/50 but 100%. it works for us! there are times when i can be irrational and demand something when he is reading or doing something important that doesnt seem important to me, he merely points out my mistake without making a big issue out of it. about correcting, i dont usually do that cause, you see my hubby is a very common sense guy and his logic goes beyond my understanding. hope this helps. summer

Answer 11

Not all men need thier wives to be thier mommies.

Some men marry to build up thier wives.

If you can't run with the Big Dogs, stay on the porch!