my husband have been trying to make a baby for 3 months now, and nothing, and i just found out a week ago i have something on my cervix that they can get rid of. But my husband also has a low sperm count. Any ideas or opinions on this? We really want to have a baby together.
2006-06-13 10:46:29 · 12 answers · asked by Piper 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
baby girl, go get ivf done.
2006-06-13 11:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband has a low sperm count, that can pose a problem in itsself. Maybe he should go and talk to the doctor about ways to increase his sperm count. I hope that whatever is on your cervix won't cause any problems in your trying to conceive or the ability to carry the fetus full term. Just have your husband speak with the doctor and go from there, since you already know that you can get whatever on your cervix fixed.
2006-06-13 10:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlildev6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are ovualtion kits you can try im doing them now and they are great !!! you buy them at the drug store or any shop that sells pregnancy stuff... you buy an ovulation kit for 5 days it comes with 5 peeing cups and 5 tests you do one test a day for 5 days at the same time every day.... it sort of looks like a pregnancy test but for ovualtion.... it comes up positive when you are at your highest and that means you are going to ovulate in 24 - 36 hours so you have sex on the day you get a positive and the day after....its worked for alot of women thats just an easier thing to try so that when you know you are most fertile you can plan a romantic evening and just enjoy the night instead of worrying the WHOLE month about making sure that you and your husband had sex on certain days so goodluck and for the future CONGRATS
2006-06-13 18:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard, because God controls this span of your lives. If he's ready to give you two the responsibility of having a baby then it will happen. Suggest both of you eat right, exercise, do whatever it takes to relieve stress, which can also have a baring on things working out when it's time. As far as your health problem, say your prayers and let God know that your faith in him will remove any problems. He will take care of everything at the right time, and it's never when you think it will occur. Take care!
2006-06-13 10:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as they say patience is a virtue.. However, if you are seriously trying to conceive. It would be of great interest to you to learn more about the very unique ways our reproductive systems work. Including, charting your basal body temperature upon first waking, learning patterns and changes in your cycle.. Including cervical position and vaginal secretion changes during the month. In learning all of this it can help you determine your key fertility days. Which give you much better odds of getting pregnant. I strongly suggest picking up a copy of Toni Weschler amazing book "Taking Charge of your Fertility".. This book takes the guessing work out of getting pregnant. With a little effort, patience and some slight changes in your daily routine.. I'm sure that you'll find you'll be pregnant in no time!
Good luck!
2006-06-13 10:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by razorblade_barbiedoll2383 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband can't have a baby you should consider adoption it seems like there are so many unwanted children in the world. Keep trying try fertilty pills and any other things the doctor suggests. Just keep adoption in mind. Even if you didn't give birth to a baby you can still love them just the same.
2006-06-13 10:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by mommyof3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months isn't that long, considering the average couple takes 6 to 8 months. BUT if you already know you have issues you are best off working with a specialist. A fertiltiy specialist is called a reproductive endocrinologist.
Here's a good site for info:
http://sharedjourney.com
2006-06-13 13:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by NancyO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Maybe you should see a reproductive expert and have both of you tested to see if there is something going on with both of you. Even though its hard you still could have a chance of getting pregnant. But I would definetly see someone about this problem. If it can be corrected than I would suggest getting it done soon.
Good Luck!
2006-06-13 10:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Nisi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me teach u a recipe thats really good to increase man's sperm, i dont know if u will believe me or not but it is real and my mom asked my friend's husband to try it he didnt and they have 4 kids now. get cows bones ,wash them and add water then boil them then cool it down and let ur husband drink the water that u boiled the water with. cows bones contain alot of menirals that will increase the sperms ad thier speed. for u go to the doctor and check he may give u something .dont give up and god will reward u with a beautifull baby soon..good luck.
2006-06-13 10:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by sasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the losers who say "Maybe you're not doing it right". It's a typical ignorant response.
3 months is not that long to be trying, so don't worry. If you are concerned, talk to your doctor (your OBGYN and his urologist) to see if they have any recommendations. If you're over 35, they may refer you to an infertility specialist, just so you're not wasting any time. If you're under 35 or so, they say to try for up to a year before you have to worry about anything.
2006-06-13 10:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by luckylab8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋