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surely women are still slaves to the male sex ...my woman does as i tell her and therefore she is a good woman,she relises without me being there she would have nobody at all.what do you think ?

2006-06-13 10:43:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

14 answers

No, and you are one neutron short of a synapse, if you believe it.

2006-06-13 10:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 3 1

No women are not and do not need to feel that they have to be. We are to be submissive and respectful but in now way a slave or a door mat... We are somethng without or men but they do make our lives more complete. She was a somebody before she met you and she will be a somebody if you leave or pass away too. I sure hope she does not have a low self esteem about her self and i hope you are not dominating and bossy and mean to her. You are to love and cherish her and treat here the way you want to be treated. You are to love and treat her as you would your own body! You are to provide for her and take care of her like you would a beautiful flower. She is to be treasured and loved as you like to be respected and honored.

2006-06-13 17:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0 0

Well, I've read the various comments, and tend to agree with some of the thoughts here, and have something new to add as well.

Relationships are built on trust, good ones are anyway. There is mutual respect, and positive, nurturing communication. If you are NOT proactively ensuring those are built into EVERY aspect of the relationship, then the various 'other' negative posts here just might be appropriate---if not to take them further. :)

With that said, there ARE relationships where women (and it goes for men too) that are 'slaves' to their significant other. A good example that comes to mind are the many tens of thousands of people in similiar situations via clear and open BDSM relationships (and that is just here in the US). I won't delve into that topic here, if you are really interested, go do LOTS of reading on it yourself. If you spend less than a MONTH aggressively exploring it in an objective manner, then you've not got what it takes TO understand.

Beyond that, there are people, both men and women, who are comfortable being dominant, making decisions, and in control. There are people, both men and women, who are comfortable being submissive, being obedient, and following the wishes of another (ideally someone with care, concern and respect for them).

HUNDREDS of thousands, if not millions of relationships are like this. The variance is in the degree with with either partner is dominant or submissive. And a smaller majority are BDSM-like. Most people (vanilla as they say) have a relationship built upon the strengths of each person...... hopefully there is respect, trust, and good communications---we hope there is, but know it isn't always the case.

In truth, there are many women who are genuinely satisfied (not degraded, not humiliated, not LESS of a woman) by commiting to a relationship with a man who they WANT to be in charge, who they gladly accept the choices and decisions that man makes. The same is valid and occurs where the woman is 'in charge'.

The problem here is that TOO many people see such a woman as WEAK or infearior, or being inappropriately taken advantage of. They wish to see her STAND up for herself, they wish to see her kick such a man as you to the curb. They wish, they wish, they wish...............
Everyone wishes to advise and help you become more like them, instead of seeing the potential for you as a person becoming a BETTER person the way you want to be.

In fact, I personally know of a number of women that STRONGLY desire to be submissive to what their partner want, that they wish to support and love and cherish him BECAUSE they respect him, and his ability to decide and control things. And they are genuinely HAPPY in the relationship. They are not abused, they are not degraded (as I'd kick the guys A*S*S if he was that way). These are real, normal and wholesome relationships.

As for your bland FLAME-attracting statement........ "surely women are still slaves..." shows you do have some learning, and maturing to go through. Maybe your woman DOES do as you tell her to, hopefully it isn't out of fear and intimdation, but out of love and respect.

Further, you didn't explain WHY you are so special. Maybe you are cruel, domineering and treating her as LESS then she deserves.... if so, you DEFINATELY would have a lot to learn.

Care to edit/enhance your question with more information so others can provide more informed advice???

Good luck and best wishes!

2006-06-13 18:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by megettingbetter 2 · 0 0

I think you have some things backwards. Without her you are nothing. She only does what you want because she loves your no good backside. If I were you I would think long and hard how I treat people and what they really mean to me. I think you are confused about a relationship and how it is supposed to operate. Place yourself in her shoes for one month. Did you like how you were treated. Give what you are given or you just might lose it all.
Friendly advice from the Best.

2006-06-13 17:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by BlaqueButterfli 1 · 0 0

first of all, i'm 12 and yes, i know the answer EVEN if u think i shouldn't be answering this question!
what do u think the answer is smartypants? well of course......NOT!!! how in the worlds would women be slaves to men....if my bf would do that, i would slap him in the face and tell him to get a grip and some head tumor pills(of course after i beat him up)!!!

2006-06-15 03:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by KK 3 · 0 0

LOL see ignorant people like you just get on my nerves. I dont even know how to reply to this, other than simply NO you are 100% and completely wrong.

2006-06-13 17:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mz_AmanDA 4 · 0 0

NO u!!!! what part of the world n centrury u r frm???? dont forget u came out of a women.......have some respect for them......or for a better answer ask ur mom.....she will for sure get this out of ur system......

2006-06-13 17:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you're full of yourself and only date women with low self esteem

2006-06-13 17:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0 0

I think you are a jerk and I feel sorry for your wife. She should dump you flat on your ***. With out you she would be a whole lot better off.

2006-06-13 17:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0 0

hahaha i think your all wrong and your to scared to admit it...your the slave in your house. you know good and well women DO NOT bow down to men anymore....its 2006 honey!!!!!!!

2006-06-14 13:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0 0

NO!! I Dont Think So..Not In 2006..

2006-06-13 17:47:10 · answer #11 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0 0

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