as i am very polite and decent to others,i expect that i must be treated the same in return.i know this is unavailable in life,so i started to minimize my relations as much as possible,as i cannot stand being hurt for any reson.what do you suggest?
2006-06-13 10:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by sadflower 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometime its hard to hold yourself back from what your feeling. No one can stop you from feeling the way you feel. You got to remind yourself, not to let anything bring you down exspecially relationship. Try to think positive or keep youself occupy with what is important.
Focus on what can bring a better changes towards you not the negative. Go with the flow with what comes and go, think of yourself before others. Do what make you happy!
2006-06-13 10:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by lk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor and explain the feelings and discomfort you are experiencing. It sounds like you may have social anxiety disorder, basically this disorder leaves you feeling over exposed when out in public or in groups. It is treatable but you need to take the first step and seek help from a professional medical provider. Try looking it up on the web and see if this sounds like what your experiencing.
2006-06-13 17:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by awfay2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to build up a wall between yourself and the whoever you come in contact with, not like a big wall to where you're over confident and are to good to talk to somebody, but just a small enough wall to where you can take criticism, and harsh words and not be offended by them. Just take things step by step, try talking to a friend and she what they can do to help you out. But overall you just have to learn how to accept that you're not going to like everything that everybody says.
2006-06-13 17:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a thicker skin and say b*olli*cks to them. Read the Poem by Rudyard Kipling called IF and take heed!
2006-06-13 18:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try workin in the front line... customer service, retailer or watever...
u will get so numb after that...
n i can take really bad feedback well.. coz all i do is curse n swear behind their back.
2006-06-13 17:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay home
hope that didnt hurt your feelings
2006-06-13 17:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
harden up a bit or you will be walk other all you life...
2006-06-13 17:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋