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hey, my gf and i are just getting into it... she wants me to be the dominant. we are new to this so nothing crazy yet... but, any ideas that could help me?

2006-06-13 10:15:35 · 3 answers · asked by andy-warhol-buyer 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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She seems to know what she wants, but you have to come up with the ideas?

Some general tips: start light, talk a lot, do a little roleplay (master and slave, teacher and schoolgirl, whatever you fancy)., try out a little love bondage.
The dominant is there to occupy himself *completely* with the well being of the submissive.

Bondage 101:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/bondage.htm

BDSM for beginners:
http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/chism/newbiecenter.html

Wikipedia starting point:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM

Have fun!

2006-06-14 05:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by cordefr 7 · 2 0

Arbitary rules that result in punishment if she can't follow them is good. Try telling her she's not allowed to orgasm until you say. Or you could tell her she can't make any noise, if she is a screamer. Ice can be fun. Feather ticklers are nice. Be creative, have fun with it.

Enjoy!

2006-06-14 07:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She wants you to be dominant? Seems to me she is the dominant one to decide this ;-)

2006-06-13 10:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0 0

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