2006-06-13 09:33:31 · 10 answers · asked by deborah e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have to say it comes back to self-confidence. Usually it seems the overly jealous are all lacking one thing self-confidence. Maybe they feel threatened by other men because they feel inferior. The other option may be that they like the control they feel by making you feel guilty. Be careful!
2006-06-13 09:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by breeokc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those husbands don't love you, they are just afraid to be alone.
Assuming you've given him no reason not to trust you.
Jealousy is opposite of trust.
If you can't trust your mate, you need to find one you can trust.
The marriage was most likely more his idea than yours, and you either didn't want to hurt his feelings or you
thought his actions were "romantic" at the time. This did not occur only after the marriage....you had signs before that. And sometimes we have a hard time distinguishing what true love really is, and jealousy is not one of the signs.
2006-06-13 16:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to me when I tell you that I have delt with this and it has nothing to do with you AT ALL!!!! Your husband is either fighting issues with himself and is afraid you are going to leave him so he "plays" the jealousy card to re-assure himself. Or he is cheating/or thinking about it himself! Maybe you both should get into counseling or just tell him flat out, you need to stop being this way or I'm gone! And mean it! Any man who would treat you this way on a constance basis is never going to change nor does he really love you!
2006-06-13 16:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the same reason that some women get so obsessively jealous with their hubs. It's a natural emotion such as it is.
2006-06-13 16:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by ari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a good look around u as far as what is going on, people cheat like theres nothing wrong with it,seems like every man is after someones elses wife or gf or its the other way around, when we love some one we do get possessive, and i think we have good reason to
2006-06-13 16:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are so insecure about themselves that they have to control thier spouses and kids. it sucks and no one should stick with a spouse that does that.
2006-06-13 16:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're afraid of losing their wives.
2006-06-13 16:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because so many wives ffuucckk around
2006-06-13 16:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are yuou hot, then if you are he is only trying to take care of his jem
2006-06-13 16:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by geckz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure
2006-06-13 19:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋