My cancer was discovered in April 2000 and in its final stages.The doctors did not give me too much time to be around and told me to get my paper work all in order.27 major operations, which included an overdose of radiation, a burst ulcer (peritonites) and more complications did not deter me to live. I am alive but the side effects are boggling. My food and wind passage are both closed and cannot be reconstructed. I breathe through a stoma (a hole) in my throat and a tube attached to my stomach. I have not even tasted a sip of water in the last 5+ years! Being the eldest in the family I am expected to be the bread winner and have the responsibility of looking after my widowed mother,a spinster old aunt, my wife and two teenaged sons and do so.I am physically very fit.I work 14 hours a day (my job which I really enjoy) needs me to do the same. I get so exhausted at times that I wish I had died. Any answers to the stress I am going through as my doctors are scared this will kill me.
2006-06-13 09:32:35 · 2 answers · asked by livingonthinice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, they should be gracious to still have you. Why don't you all work together and help eachother out? Why all this seperation? A family is supposed to be a team, and there is no "I" in team. I would suggest that you all get counseling honestly...before it does kill you. Get help, all of you.
2006-06-13 10:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by dixi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very aggravating!!!!!!!!!! Yes, it happened to me a year ago with a former Yahoo ID. Question: "Which comes first: chicken or egg?" My Answer: "Chicken (alphabetical order!)" Another answerer used my identical answer after I submitted it. His was chosen Best Answer. Turned out to be a team of two persons who had a little game going where she would pose a question; he would answer; and no matter how inane (or insane) the answer, his would be chosen for the 10 points. An example -- she asked the question: "Who invented the 24 hour day?" He answered "Rolex owner", and she chose that as Best Answer.
2016-03-15 03:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-14 00:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋