2006-06-13 09:30:54 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i belive so...i mean you cant help for who you fall for and how it happens,and where.but when you no its love,well then thats just how you fell and theres nothing that can change that
2006-06-13 09:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by allivegotx11 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did.
I think you have a better opportunity to get to know someone if you chat online for a while before you actually meet the person. Cuz if they are just after sex, they will want to meet right away and will push the issue of physical contact. However, I chatted online and then over the phone for over 2 weeks with my current boyfriend (of almost a year I might add) before we met over a weekend (we lived 400 miles apart). And we saw each other every two weeks for about 3 days. Now we live together and couldn't be happier....( I hear wedding bells in my near future ;) )
I definitely think meeting online is the best way to meet people today.
Good luck
2006-06-13 09:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by intelligentaphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you can fall in love with the personality that they portray thru their emails, im's, and phones calls which may only be a few minutes as day however that person may reveal them trueselves when they are in person with you and athough online and longdistance dating takes a lot dedication from both parties there could always be the fact that when we really get to touch someone that we start to take them for granted when on the other hand you really loved this person when you only had a part of them and not the whole person but in the end the only person that can say if its love is you and your heart listen to it and it wont steer you wrong. Good luck hope it works out.
2006-06-13 09:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The risk is no different than meeting a stranger in a bar and at least the person online is sober. If you do find a good match online, the big difference is that you get to know how they think and what's on the "inside" rather than judging them by how they look first. At the end of the day, it's the person inside that makes a relationship work.
I met my husband online 4 years ago. We spoke for 3 months online before I gave him my phone number and then we spoke on the phone for 3 months after that before we arranged to meet in person. We shared all of our thoughts and dreams before hand and found that we were more compatible than anyone we had ever dated in the past!
He came all the way from the UK to meet me in the US. (not cheap)!
I'm not saying that will happen to everyone, but you need to use your best judgment, listen to your head and your heart.
2006-06-13 09:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by bunny942001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so. What/Who you are falling in love with is the real question. If the person you are dating online is being honest about who they are and everything, then yes you can fall in love. We don't fall in love with just the physical stimulation we get. The mental and psychological are the real reasons we fall in love. Because you can always look beyond the physical and find a diamond in the rough.
2006-06-13 09:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by cjnboos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I met my husband through online personals. Been together 4 years now, happy family, got kids, going well. BUT.... I also met my ex online and that obviously didn't turn out that well if he's an ex.. lol.. so ya just gotta pick wisely.. also, "love" through the web isn't that much different than that in "real" life. Think about it... you go to a bar ( or where ever you choose to meet guys)... meet a guy there.. he's STILL a STRANGER... just like online... talk to him, he's still a stranger... sure, you might be able to look at him immediately (and know it's actually him and not someone else's picture) in person, but he could still turn out to be a stalker/killer/rapist, etc... just gotta live n learn i guess.
2006-06-13 09:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont think anyone can really fall in love online. I mean you might fall in love with the person who acts a certain way ONLINE....but you never know who he or she really is in real life.
2006-06-13 09:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by da1ndn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Can they find someone online, meet the person and fall in love? Yes.
2006-06-13 09:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Or at least you can feel such a connection that you meet and then it turns into love.
I would know. I'm getting married next May. :-D
I think it's because talking online to someone allows you to see who they are on the inside first and foremost and having compatible personalities is a crucial part of a successful relationship.
2006-06-13 09:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by btrflykiss2185 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Two of my best friends met and fell in love across the net. They've met face to face a number of times now. And this fall they will have been togather for two whole years.
Love ya Jessica and Sarah
2006-06-13 09:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by hotchik2055 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as crazy as it sounds yea they can, i say that cus it happened to me and now me and him and i are still going out for almost 2 yrs now, however the only disadvantage is that he lives in fl and i live in md but we've managed to visit each other whenever we can
mainly people do this cus of the personality of the person they are talking to, they become attracted to the inside rather than the outside but wether your not attracted to the person physically afterwards or they lied about some personal things while talking to you are a few bad things about falling in love online
2006-06-13 09:40:08 · answer #11 · answered by nena_phantasy11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋