Peoples attitudes and judgements...?

Question

I have found myself more crushed and emotional more than once since I have started asking questions on this site. I dont know why people get so defensive and irrational to your questions when they dont know me or the entirety of the situation. I had asked a question about my sons name and had someone bluntly tell me it was ugly, I asked about divorce and someone answered my husband should get my child since hes the better parent, i asked about an argument my hubby and I had and had someone tell me that I was initiating fight & I should grow up and some other lady asked why her daughter was sick & someone told her to shoot her daughter and put her out of her misery- what happened to people being polite and supportive, I have never met so many rude people. my take on this is that the people who answered that way were probably young and immature and havent experienced alot of what life throws at you sometimes but have the rest of you (supportive people) encountered these idiots on here?

Answer 1

Yes, I have, and it upsets me too. Somebody cursed me out, others told me I was an a**hole, and that was why my wife left me....all kinds of rudeness, but you know what, There are a lot of good people on here, that are nice, wonderful people, so I keep on answering, and asking..........never mind the bad ones!!!

Answer 2

yea i think its stupid too but you'd be surprised how many of them actually arent young and/or immature...i mean i understand sumtimes telling the other person the truth and throw the reality onto the asker but sumtimes they can go over board to the point where it sounds stupid and its not really true. lots of ppl just like to assume alot of things when it comes to that, so maybe most people should further explain their questions so other ppl are less likely to say rude stuff like that

Answer 3

i havent yet, but everything comes back to you in the end so they need to watch what they say about other people cause it could happen to them.