I often find that when myself and a group of friends go out drinking I often get left alone by the end of the night; I'm quite a caring kind of guy and always make sure others are having a good night before me, eg, helping the ones that are sick, listening to the ones that have had a drunken row with boyfriend/girlfriend.
Because of this quite often by the end of the night I'm often left out of the fun as I've spent my time babysitting some of the others- anyone else have this?
2006-06-13 09:12:48 · 9 answers · asked by DaveyMcB 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think that you should stop worring about everyone else and concentrate onyourself. You need to ask yourself if they would do the things you do for them, for you. And if not, then dont fu**in bother. Have fun live your life init, put yourself first always.
2006-06-13 09:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem too. Often feels like I'm only there to "make up the numbers" but get left out however many people are there. It's good that you care so much about your friends but you need to try to go out to have fun for you and not look after others. You will soon find out who your real friends are if you have fun yourself, ie. those who actually want your company. Of course, if a friend has a problem you shouldn't neglect them but maybe ask someone else to help out a bit.
2006-06-13 09:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's great isn't it!
Try not to be the one who always looks after everyone else. When someone does get a bit upset or sick, don't automatically go and help them. Try and join in the fun, don't babysit as much!
2006-06-13 09:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you should stop! Babysit yourself for a change! You deserve to have fun too!
2006-06-13 09:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by maggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l guess u r ok.u have to care for those who need yr help.but u should aslo enjoy the fun and not baby sit everytime.u have to gettime to enjoy and refresh so dont worry it will change soon
2006-06-13 09:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by sisa n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah !
been there
done that.......................
it is a good thing that at sometime during a night out there is always someone there who'll help out or listen
you may not get any thanks
but hey, it's better than staying at home by yourself, innit ?
2006-06-19 12:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Insecurity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes all the time i am that way too
2006-06-13 09:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by h_pike76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do.
2006-06-13 09:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Shaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I don't have any freinds
2006-06-13 09:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋