me? what should i do? we had kids together. all grown now. its been 20+ years. can a women go w/out sex that long?
2006-06-13 09:06:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well its like this. i went back to school, while away she left and never came back. we are good friends n get along. i just don't understand why she never remarried. forget all sex toys, shes not the type. i know.
2006-06-13 09:15:55 · update #1
why do i care? she was my first love.
2006-06-13 09:22:30 · update #2
Women (and men too) can go without sex as long as they want to. She might not be waiting for you, but maybe she's waiting for the right man.
2006-06-13 09:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I doubt she is waiting for you, but is it possible you want her back? You seem too concerned for her. You say she isn't the type to have toys, how do you know? Maybe not when she was with you! Maybe she went wild after the divorce and how can you possibly know she has not had sex since the divorce? Do you follow her everywhere? She might not have gotten married again because maybe she thinks all men are like you or you could of turned her off from men completely! Everything is possible! Sorry but you sound like a very lonely man and I'm wondering if you are the one going through a dry spell! Let her be damn, you are divorced for a reason and she has the right to have or not to have sex without you worrying about it!
2006-06-13 16:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not - sex is not a requirement for everyone's life! People can be totally happy and fulfilled without having sex. I guess that men like you cannot understand that since you seem to think it is impossible to live without sex. Kind of like the boys in High School that tell girls they will die if they don't get it! HA Stop thinking that your ex wants you back simply for sex. Maybe the sex you gave her was so bad she decided that if that was what sex was all about, she would gladly live without it!
2006-06-13 16:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by mhw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol..first off its none of your business anymore. second, what YOU might think to be true is NOT always true. I'm sure over the course of 20 years she has been with someone and if not, there are toys that can take the place of almost any man. I think you need to find something else to focus on other then your EX wife...she is an EX for a reason correct?
2006-06-13 16:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she may be waiting for you its a possibility. do you two still talk? if yes, do you get along with each better than when you were married? maybe she thinks you "grew" up and thats why she never dated or had sex with anyone else. also, maybe she still has feelings for you. you wont know until you talk to her and ask her some questions pertaining to your question on here. good luck
2006-06-13 16:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by nativeglitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you know if she has had sex or not, she isn't your wife anymore, so she doesn't have to answer to you, besides why do you care? You should not do anything, again, she isn't your wife anymore. Just because you have kids doesn't mean she is pining away for you, even if she is, one way or another it is getting to you, maybe you should ask yourself why. I am sure she is just fine whether she has or hasn't had sex with another man.
2006-06-13 16:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by complex_bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its nice that you care, if you are good friends why don't you ask her? maybe being a mom was enough for her and she didn't feel the need for a man in her life. also what ended your marriage in the first place? maybe she's just a person that is happier alone. the only way you will really find out is to talk to her about it.
2006-06-13 16:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she relates the sexual experience with intimacy and may not be ready for casual sex. Furthermore depending on the break up of her previous relationship, she may not have regroup and start building a relationship.
2006-06-13 16:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Vincent P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be she is just waiting for you. If you care for her, then prove it. Actions speak louder than words. You should be happy coz she remained untouched after all these long years. You should count yourself a lucky one. Not many women are like that nowadays,,,,,,, trust me, she love you still.
2006-06-13 16:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she is hoping you two will get back together, especially if you broke up with her.
If you don't want her back I wouldn't worry about her as far as her love life goes.
2006-06-13 16:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by Wanna get down not the 1st night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋