The problem is we are both married. I'm going out of town in a few months for business, this is probably the only opportunity that I will have to ever meet him. Should I meet him or let it go? I know we can never have a relationship but he is very special to me.
2006-06-13 09:01:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep it special by NOT meeting him..you can only be disappointed...reality is never as good as what you think it is going to be.
2006-06-13 09:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 4⤋
Let it go. It will hurt like nothing else has ever hurt if you go through with it. Some things are best left to our imaginations. trust me. It has the potential to destroy even the best of people. If your certain you will never have a relationship with this person I think you should settle into the "friend" role. Keep your integrity in tact and keep to your commitments.
2006-06-13 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by joanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, if there are any feelings other than friendship, it would not be wise.
If there are only feelings of friendship, then you need to discuss it with your paartners, that way the partner knows and your partner will know you're being honest and not trying to hide anything.
If you have to ask yourself "Is this a good Idea?" then it's probably not and you need to think how would you feel if your partner did what you're thinking about.
2006-06-13 09:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Wanna get down not the 1st night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not. he will never leave his wife and if he does and marry you he may do the samething to you. he may have been lying to you online. remember he can say anything on line. he may be a sex offender and you would not know
2006-06-13 09:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you looking to get out of it. He is married.
2006-06-13 09:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are both married. Don't do it , would be too easy to do things you may regret later.
2006-06-13 09:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by bearaquila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shudnt coz if u both get more attached yr putting both yrs and his married life in jeopardy
2006-06-13 09:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by ice_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just as long as you dont cheat on your husband, always think of the consequences or how would you feel if your partner did the same to you?
2006-06-13 09:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by _juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband know about the relationship you have? Ask him what you should do. If you cannot ask him, then you have your answer.
2006-06-13 09:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt because if you are happily married you wouldnt do it. if you arent happily married then meet him, its just meeting him.
2006-06-13 09:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go have a good cup of coffee
2006-06-13 09:09:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋