Ive been in a relationship wid dis guy for 6 months. Is it too early to think about marriage?
2006-06-13 08:52:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since you are not sure, I would have to say YES - wait a while. In my 50+ years of experience, people can be very good at hiding their true selves for a LONG time. So, the key here is to share a lot of life experiences before you decide if this is THE person for you. And that only comes with time. Time to see what he will do under extreme stress as well as the great times. Take your time - there is no need to hurry and get married. Wouldn't you rather take a year or 2 to really know each other and give yourselves the best opportunity to make a marriage work, then to get married, possibly have kids and then go through a divorce simply because you were so much "in love" for a short while? Good Luck!
2006-06-13 09:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by mhw 4 · 10⤊ 4⤋
i think its waay too early ,there could be things you dont know about each other that you're going to have problems with in the future. give it a little more time say a year and some months, you'll know what i mean, once u start living with a guy its just different, you guys get on each others nerves , if you do think about it or you really want it to happen because there aren't any doubts in your mind about this guy and u dont care what people think then i say go for it!
2006-06-13 08:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by _juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you. If is different in all cases, some people only date a couple of weeks and get married, it depends on the people and the situation. If you are in love and know it then you can think about it. It also depends on what the says. Always remember, you can think and just not say until you know the timing is right.
2006-06-13 08:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought about marriage on my first date! I proposed 4 months after we began dating and we married 11 months after we began dating. 10 years later it is the best thing I ever rushed into!
Good Luck, Go for it!
2006-06-13 08:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you. Are you ready? Do you think it's too soon? I married my husband a month after we met. He asked me a week after we started seeing each other to marry him and I said yes. I didn't hesitate and I'm glad I did. Take it at your own speed though. What's right for me might not be right for you. Search your soul for the right answer. You'll find it. Best wishes.
2006-06-13 08:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by amariac218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married after only knowing my husband 6 months......we have been married almost 11 years now and share 3 kids....but, if you are asking you might want to put a little more thought in to it....
2006-06-13 08:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married five days short of our 3 month anniversary of when we started dating. And I couldn't be happier. It is totally up to you and your feelings. I knew that it was the right thing to do but that doesn't mean that it will be for you. You need to do what you think is the right thing to do.
2006-06-13 09:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by cascade_waterfall04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes way too early. you are still in the infatuation stage, wait until you see each others bad points and if you still love each other then thats when you start talking about marriage
2006-06-13 08:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking is a direct indication that it is too early for YOU.
2006-06-13 08:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met my wife in July and married her in Feb. Been married for 28 years. Go for it.
2006-06-13 09:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by kentonq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋