My husband and I havent had sex for 8 months and how can I let him know that something needs to change. I am 24 and he is 50 and so far pills havent worked. How do I let him know what I want with out upsetting him. he is already embarred about not gettin it up.
2006-06-13 08:21:50 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
believe it or not, thats a common problem with older men. he should try talking to a doctor who can explain that many men at his age have the same problem. try telling him that you miss your love life and you'd love to know what you could do to spice things up. maybe the two of you could come up with some intimate ideas that the both of you would enjoy.
2006-06-13 08:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by meadowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is crazy no sex for 8 months wait that sound like my wife never wanting it, you just need to tell him how u feel and that u need some love and sex more best of luck i know were u are coming from it hella sucks
2006-06-13 15:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's only natural that he feels a bit ashamed about this.
Just be sure to use "I feel" statements, rather than "You should" or "You don't" statements.
Why not talk to him about introducing toys into the bedroom? That way, the pressure isn't totally on him to perform, and you get pleasure, too.
Good luck! I hope you guys can work something out.
2006-06-13 15:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you just tried propositioning him creatively? If that doesn't work, he may have a medical problem and ignoring it won't make it go away. You need to explain to him that you love him and that you and he vowed to meet one another's needs. You need to be intimate with him; therefore, he needs to do his part to make sure this happens for both of you. He should be mature enough to understand that sometimes middle aged men have to address this topic.
2006-06-13 15:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by loveswittyrepartee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and be like come on baby lets do it anyway or put on like a small porn show for him and be like you dont even know him and just go wild
2006-06-13 15:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't get it up, then how are you all going to have sex??? tell him to go down on you, or give you a boy toy(permission to cheat)
2006-06-13 15:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he needs to do other things to sastify you if his dick cant get up. if u love him i guess u would work it out somehow. good luck hun.
2006-06-13 15:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋