i have a problem, can u please help me?

Question

ok, well i wuz spending the night with 2 of my friends, and they made up a screen name and they were iming this one girl that they don't like but i'm friends with, and they were pretending 2 b this one guy that she likes. and i didn't like it, so when i got home i called her and told her that it wuz them. and now my 2 friends r mad at me, and they were iming me saying that i'm a b****, f**, and that i wuz a fat lard, and that i wuz pethedic because i never had a boyfriend. and they were saying fu, and they r making me really mad, and i don't know how i can just forget about it, or help it so they r not mad at me anymore. i'm sorry if it is confusing and stuff, but can u please help me?

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Answer 1

Just tell them that you like your other friend.

And tell them you would have done the same thing for them if someone were making a fool of them.

Tell them you still want to be friends with them, but you don't want to hurt people.

That's all. Good luck.

Answer 2

you dont have to defend yourself. they should be happy that you're a loyal friend, and know that you would do the same for them. try talking to them when each is seperate, not when they are together and tell them why you did what you did and that it wasnt because you hate them, but because you were trying to be a loyal person. dont worry about if you have a bf or not, someone good will come along. i didnt have a bf for a while and i felt like i missed out, but i found a great guy after a few months and he's amazing! im glad i wasnt dating anyone else at the time or i may have missed out on him!

Answer 3

You SO did the right thing! in fact i think you are the AWESOMEST person for having the courage to call her and tell her! As for the other two tramps who need a life other than trying to play nasty tricks on people! I think they are NOT your friends because no friends says your pathetic because you haven't had a boyfriend (believe they are nothing special! more of a pain in the a$$, i would say) I wish there were more people in the world like you* and less of the ignorant, low life hoes that have no life but to sit around a play on their computer!
You need to stand up for yourself and tell them to back off and never forgive them!
Good Luck Sweetie!

Answer 4

OMG I sooo know where your coming from. It sounds just like my school. Well the girls that are cussing you out are very good friends, and it's probably a good thing you called the girl and told her. Just talk to the one that are cussing you out and say your sorry, but that you all would have been in major trouble if the girl they were talking to found it was them another way. It will eventually blow over and they will find something else to worry about.

Answer 5

All they had to do was say, ah you bag, and laugh it off. Why are they taking it so seriously? They sound kind of freakish.

You did the right thing. Something not nice could've happened because she thought it was that guy. Or maybe something good could have happened, but I don't think that was their intentions.

Either way, forget them, they are over reacting and I would be laughing at them for being such freaks about it!

Answer 6

They are obviously not your friends...even after school at the work place its like high school all over again at times..but you have to over look these people because they will always be around...just hang out with your true friends and don't worry over time they will weed themselves from the bad ones...I never really dated in high school because the guys just wanted sex... I really had larger plans that bed hopping so...dont worry...just be the better person and fun...if those girls are your friends they will come around eventually they see your not affected by them and you've moved on...

Answer 7

The two girls are extremely immature and honestly, there's nothing you can do or say to make them grow up faster; the problem isn't with your actions, you did the right thing. The problem is that these two girls aren't adult enough to know better than to have fun at someone else's expense.

You'll be a better person for it in the long run.

Answer 8

you don't need to be friends with those b i t c h e s! gosh get some new friends or befriend that other girl more.
seriously. you can do wayyy better than that. they don't seem to be very nice people in the first place.
i just think you should act like they are the ones that need to apologize and maybe they will come around.
but if they do you shouldn't forgive them because as i said before they seem like b i t c h e s.

Answer 9

Its happened to me too and all u need to do is talk to them tell them than it was wrong what they did and ask them if they would want the same thing done to them........Or you could do the same thing they did to them make up an unusual name say that ur someone they like and then really make them think the person wants to go out with them..........I say do the same to them see how they like it and u really wont make them more mad because they cant get much more mad at u but im not sure............. Good Luck........................

Answer 10

Those aren't good friends to hang around with first of all. It's just going to cause trouble, You did the right thing to tell you're friend what happened and i'm sure she appreciated it. As for you're other so called "friends" block them, ignore them as much as possible, if you can talk to their parent's, Show them that you know what they did was wrong and what you did was right, and that you know it doesn't bother you what they say, they'll eventually lay off.