help,what would u do in this situation?

Question

i went to a job interview today and i got the job whoooo!
its a job in a docter surgery as a receptionist, now the problem is :
i used to have a so called best friend, since i was quite young and we were friends for abt 10yrs (im 21), now she to assume im her best frined, and i am push over type of person so i led this friendship go on, even though i hated her and couldnt stand her,she bossy,annoying , phones everyday,etc...
now wen i abt 10 we had an argument, and next day she got some sweeties and ended up making up and becoming friends for 10 yrs(biggest mistake ). so abt 8 months ago i got really p'd off with her and hang'd up on her and i did this repeatidly and arguin... apprently she told my other friend that i am b-i-t-c-h ,so for 8 months we havnt spoken to each other thank god,and likeing thing without her,prob is she is joined to this dr surgery and i have to pass by her home wen i go there,i dnt wanna be friends with her and i kw she prolly somehow try make up with me

and i really really dont want to be her friend!!! i hate her.
and she is one hell of a manipulative b-i-t-c-h... pls what do i do

and i kw sooner or later i will have to talk to her even though i can ignore her out side work but i cant at this workplace

Answer 1

hello,
You need to write her a letter that tell her that you do not want to
be friends anymore. You don't mind saying hello but that's as
far as the relationship go. She need to more on and leave you alone. You will not need to reach me to talk about this issue it is done.

Answer 2

Just pay her no mind. If she phones, don't answer or return the call. If in the event you have to confront her, be honest in a polite way. Just don't let this stand in the way of your life because as it stands she has control. She can control where you go because you have a fear of running into her. Good luck with everything

Answer 3

guess u needn't mind her at all. y make a mountain of a molehill. get new frnds n NJOY UR LIFE.