i wanna get preg. but idk if i should should i??

Question

im 15yearz old n i dnt go to school n i bang.. but like i wanna turn my life around....

da gang im in itz like no turnin around i gota b dead to b out of it.......

Answer 1

Well if u want a baby have a baby i have a friend 13 and she is having her 2nd baby.....e-mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 2

You're 15 and you want a baby? Sweetie, you're still a baby and if you want to do anything with your life you should wait to have a baby. I had a baby when I was 18 and now I'm tryin' to go to college and I got summer classes. It's so hard to find someone you can trust to take care of your child and it's expensive. PLEASE, wait til you've done all you want with your life, like making something of youself or traveling or just having fun. Once you have a child you can't go partying or hang with your friends. And no guy that gets you knocked up at 15 really loves you and it's highly likely he'll disappear before you give birth and you shouldn't go through pregnancy, childbirth or parenting alone. Your parents don't count. Coming from someone who has experienced it, Trust Me....WAIT. PLEASE.PLEASE.PLEASE....WAIT... til you're at least 25.
Sure you'll have an unconditional love but it's so heartbreaking and still lonely if you do it without a REAL man. And a REAL man won't get you pregnant before you finish school. Don't believe that guy that says he loves you, he's just saying that for the pu*sy...believe me, I know, I've been there.

Answer 3

Honey, if you're out banging, you're not okay to have a kid. You need to get your s**t together before you even consider bringing a baby into this world - things are hard enough. Seriously - you don't have an education, what are you going to teach your kid?

Having a kid isn't the same as being a grown up. Being a grown up means being responsible and doing what you need to do to survive and maybe even give something back. It sounds like you haven't been given very many opportunities to explore your own value - and you wouldn't be able to if you had a kid right now.

Hold off on having a kid until you're established - get your education so you have a chance. You deserve to grow up without sacrificing your childhood for a kid. I promise this is good advice. Good luck.

Answer 4

So if you "like, wanna turn your life around", why would you even consider becoming pregnant at 15? You have the whole rest of your life to have babies, so have fun and make something of yourself while you're young. Finish high school and choose a good path out of high school which will lead to a good job, and find the guy of your dreams before you even think about getting pregnant. It sounds to me like you feel your life is empty and you're trying to fill it with a baby, but a baby will only makes things worse and more lonely for you. I think you need help.

Answer 5

i would wait a few yrs ur still a child and like u said u wanna turn ur life around so go to school and get yourself a decent education while u still got a little time would a baby really turn ur life around i dont think itwill the way you mean it it would be very hard also if u have sex with some 1 older they willl get sent to prison for '' sex with a minor '' if some 1 finds out / or if u do get pregnant have a talk with your parents or guardians they should be able to help you and help u find out why u feel like you want this 4

Answer 6

If you wont to turn your life around get back in school get a good education then a good job. When you can support a child with out help in any way and by support I mean not living in poverty. Being able to give the child a good and happy life. Then think of having one.

Answer 7

I don't think you should try and get pregnant. Number one: it is never too late to go back to school. and THAT would be the mature thing to do and the right way to turn your life around. Number two: if you do get pregnant at fifteen you are going to regret it because you aren't even old enough to get a real job and you won't be able to provide for the baby. and Number three: if you do get pregnant, because you are fifteen, it is illegal for you to even have sex. so don't mess up your life. Just take small steps to going back to school.

Answer 8

1st of all you're only 15yrs so you shouldn't be thinking about kids ur a kid urself and if u really want to turn ur life around to back to school and get ur High School Diploma and then get a job a established get married and a house then have kids. You will regret it. I don't get pregnant that would be a huge and stupid mistakes on your part don't have common sense u need to get a life

Answer 9

definitely not.

"To be completely honest, I do not think it is impossible to raise a child at your age, and do so well. There are plenty of women who do. However, I think it is an exceptionally rare individual who can do so, and those I know of who have would all say that given the choice, they would have waited, for both their own sakes, and most of all, to better provide for their children." (from scarleteen)

I would highly recommend that you read some of the articles and advice on the site I listed as a source.

Answer 10

im 15 too... and im pregnant with twins. best advice to u... dont do it, i thought i wanted a baby too because their cute too hold and stuff, but now that im realizin what i did its gunna be a long 18 years. please dont get pregnant, u neva kno how much you'll miss childhood until ur world changes like this, im already broke and the babies didnt even come yet, every cent of my money goes to my babies, and i cant even buy things for me anymore like clothes and stuff. i cut my cell phone off because its not important rite now. u have ur whole life to havE babies so wait to do it with sum 1 u love and that respects u. Good luck!

Answer 11

As others have said, girl.....go back to school. Don't be that stupid. If and when you have a child, she is going to need a mother is financial stable. No-money isn't everything-but love, sweetheart, isn't going to pay for doctor's bills when he/she gets sick, food, clothing, and the million other things that go along with having a child. Be smart-go back to school! Enjoy your life-if your friends are wanting to have kids, talk to them too and you guys just have fun. You don't have to do drugs or have sex to have fun.