my boy friend just dumped me yesterday and now he is going out with my best friend and i like and maybe love my best friends ex-boyfriend do you think i should ask my best friends ex out oh and btw my bff's ex-boyfriend doesnt know what is going on and he still thinks my bff is going to ask her out. do you think i should ask him out
2006-06-13 08:04:46 · 27 answers · asked by pokerchix13 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-06-13 08:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a real messed up situation!!!!
Dump the boyfriend, dump the best friend(she really isn't much of a friend if she went out with your boyfriend), tell her boyfriend and then turn around and walk away from them all, girlfriend. You don't need that crap, no body does. There's someone better for you out there!!!!
2006-06-13 15:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by shgrbabe_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yipes. Your a teen, this stuff is going to happen and you just have to go with the flow. Don't get all sad and depressed, (men aren't worth it). If you like your bf x then wait for HIM to ask you out. Girls shouldn't be doing all the asking. If a guy likes you, they'll let you know. You don't have to have a boyfriend to have fun. Go out with a Bunch of friends and just hang out. Boyfriend/girlfriend is way over rated. good luck
2006-06-13 15:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't really belong in this section of the site but I'm gonna answer anyway: I think you have every right in the world to go out with your friend's ex since she's going out with yours. If you are worried about making her mad, just talk to her about it before you actually ask her ex out. If she doesn't like the idea then tell her you don't want her to date your ex then.
2006-06-13 15:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should what your heart makes you feel comfortable doing. Don't worry about thinking what others think, all you need to worry about is yourself. If you feel comfortable asking him out, then do so. If you feel like you're doing ONLY to get back at your old b/f, then that's probably not a good idea, just stay single and enjoy the free life of saving money, hanging out w/ friends, or whatever.
2006-06-13 15:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Paul D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no best friend if they are going out with your ex. That is a pact amongst all friends..........NEVER date an ex of your BF. Never go swimming in dirty water. That means leave that circle of friends and go elsewhere. You will be a better person for it.
2006-06-13 15:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by miss mayor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your choice but u dont wanna make it look like your going out with him to get at ur bf lso may look like your ''swapping partners '' i would just play it cool for a while and just chat and have fun with him then take it slow it may turn into something bigger for the both of u but u dont wanna shock him take it slow and easy also let it slip that ur ex bf and your best friend are now dating so see if he wants to ''hang out somewhere and just talk see if he is in to you
have fun and play safe
2006-06-13 15:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get with her ex just to make her feel bad then that makes you the bad person because you will be using her ex to get to her, why bring an inocent person down because you want revenge. If he goes along with it then I would go for it.
2006-06-13 15:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by babyboys1215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm, tricky...
it could get messy- but if you think the guy's into you, then yes,
though i would wait some time...it all seems to be happening too quickly-
let your best friend's ex understand whats going on...
see if he likes you
and then ask him out.
but from a moral point of view i'd say no prob
good luck:)
2006-06-13 15:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this.... DO you really want someone Else's EX? Sloppy Seconds?? NO!!!!Have more respect for yourself! Stay single, the right one will come along!
2006-06-13 15:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by icey_76431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really really like this guy then dont hesitate because ur the one thats gonna regret it in the long run if u dont make ur decision! just remember to go with ur feelings! and if ur friend doesnt agree with u then maybe she just is'nt your best friend, cos best friends are unselfish when it comes to their mates!
2006-06-13 15:12:02 · answer #11 · answered by ladies man! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋