2006-06-13 08:03:44 · 38 answers · asked by aceny81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you dont!
2006-06-13 08:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Penny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't!!! If you do you'll will just make everything really awkward between her and you. Stay away from that conversation and it would probably help if you stayed away from her too. Does anybody else atract you? Focus on her. If you do tell the c-worker that she atracts you I don't think anything good would come out of it. She would never talk to you again. Or she may feel extremely uncomfortable around you. So, think, is it worth telling her?
2006-06-13 08:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by SuNsHiNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. A statement like that could potentially ruin her life with her husband and leave poor helpless children to deal with the trauma of a parental divorce! It sounds a little extreme, but it's true! There are plenty of unmarried women out there. Don't go for the married, engaged, or even dating ones!
2006-06-13 08:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by amrmusicqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want too? You said she is married. What type of morals and values do you have that you want to interfere with another couples marriage? If she is un-happy and wants out, then you wait until she has separated and ready to date again. If she is happy, you do NOTHING! And if she wants to cheat on her spouse then sad to say its fair game. But you do really need to look into whats right and wrong here, not think between your legs!
2006-06-13 08:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply tell her how you feel but you keep it strictly professional. You don't invite her to do anything but you keep it nice and simple. If your not up to doing that then you tell her that you know a guy that likes her and you tell her how this guy feels but your really telling her the feelings that your feeling for her. Just DON'T ask her to do anything with you. You have to keep your feelings for her under wraps and you can't tell anyone else about your feelings for this woman. You just have to keep an open mind and you have to just learn to ignore your feelings for the woman and you have to start a new future without her in your mind. You can't make her leave her family and don't try to ruin it. Just try to forget about her. Try really hard.
2006-06-13 08:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by ^0^Army-Red^0^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "I'm a total jerk for even saying this to you, but, I'd like to cause problems in your marriage, make your work environment pure hell, have people gossip about us (even if nothing is going on), have your children hate you because of all this...and I'm really attracted to you. So what do ya say? How about a date?"
Try that for your opening line. Her and her husband need a good laugh. I know I got one from it!
2006-06-13 08:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by honeybmassage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell her. I don't think you would want to put a strain on your work environment let alone cause any family problems with her. If she sends you signals that ishe finds you attractive then keep your distance. Trust me they never leave their family.
2006-06-13 08:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The object of the game is not necessarily to win, but to learn and master the rules. Life has rules and we must abide by them. We could not murder people to get rich, could we? We could not rape people to satisfy our sexual desire, could we?
It is bad enough to think of ruining people's lives -- how rude could a person be to let others know about it?!!! That is not honesty, that's evil controlling our minds. That type of mind belongs to toilet. Just flush it!
2006-06-13 08:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If you truly respect her then you will keep silent about your attraction to her. It will just lead to a real awkward work relationship and a possible harrasment lawsuit.
2006-06-13 08:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself. She is married and has kids. Don't ruin her life because u have a crush
2006-06-13 08:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell her anything. It might make her uneasy and ruin your working relationship that you have at work. Also check your company's policy on sexual harassment. Be careful your good intention may get you in to trouble.
2006-06-13 08:08:12 · answer #11 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋