I told her i was sorry i jus want her to tell me wat she hates bout e so i can change all the bad things b/c wat is the point of bein friends if u can't be honest???
2006-06-13 07:58:46 · 13 answers · asked by jessica_moore2010 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's a girl thing, trust me, it isn't worth it. You won't believe how many times this will happen in your circle of friends over the next few years. Blow it off, just don't even fret about it. Think this way...if she can't be honest, it's her problem not yours, just don't confide in her so much until she gets her crap together.
2006-06-13 08:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by barefeet561 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really expect her to say it back? Don't. If you're truly sorry, then you got to show it by your actions. This ain't the nicest time to ask what she hates about you. The storm has got to clear and the clouds settled. Once you get to being the friends you used to be, then you can talk it over and ask your question. But right now, if you want the relationship to heal, then you got to do your best to overlook whatever your best friend does at this time. Just make sure you don't keep bringing back the memory of the fights... Talk about the nice times you've had together. Remind her what good times you had being friends... This will give her some sweet memories which will be able to flush the anger from her system.
Happy friendship!
2006-06-17 08:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Saintpi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably still mad that you guys fought and not ready to say she's sorry. But I also think you shouldn't be asking people what they hate about you - that's like seriously pointless. Everyone has stuff that is not desireable - but you don't focus on that - you focus on your strengths and just manage your weaknesses. Yeah, you want your friends to tell you if you're acting stupid, but you shouldn't try to change who you are to make someone like you. Sweetie, just be who you are and things will work out the way they're supposed to. You're going to go through a lot of experiences like this - that's what growing up is and it's important that you learn to be strong and confident in who you are. Don't wait for her to say she's sorry - or to tell you what she hates so you can change. If she's really your friend, she'll get over being angry pretty soon and things will be back to normal. If not, then count it as a blessing that you've weeded a toxic person out of your life. Good luck!
2006-06-13 08:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by headshrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as we'd like, we can't make people like us. Maybe the fight was more hurtful to her than you realize, or maybe that's just her excuse to end your "friendship". If you have apologized then that is all you can do, so comfort yourself with having done the right thing in that respect. Let Time handle the rest. People will move in and out of your life throughout your lifetime, it's possible your time with her is done...at least for now.
2006-06-13 08:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends there should be no need for you to change anything about you or her. You guys should like each other for who you are. It is good that you said sorry, but don't do it just to hear it back. You should leave it at that and she will see what a good person you are.
2006-06-13 08:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by jinxy84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made the mistake then you would be the one to say you're sorry. No need of her telling you back
2006-06-13 08:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of these days she'll come around. but for now leave it alone. You said you were sorry therefore you did your part. She's the one that hasn't did her part.
2006-06-13 08:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by GabbiGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to stop the anger than do the same thing shes doing to you, then she'll miss you and want you back as a freind
2006-06-13 08:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by jojogunjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she was just using u or somthing or she`s just sort of going through depresian i mean im still going through a harsh break up right now
2006-06-13 10:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by marriah k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only be responsible for your behavior and actions...if you are sincere with your apology that is the best you can do. your friend will have to decide for herself...
2006-06-13 08:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by joeynat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋