I had a GF when I was in my school. Now I am in college and have no relation with the school gf, what so ever. And I never considered to talk about this to my present GF.
But she somehow found out and now feels that I made a mistake by not telling her about my past....................but when did u ask about it?
She has made a big issue out of it. I think its a small one. Am I right?
2006-06-13 07:28:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
It shouldn't be an issue. The key word is PAST. Your girlfriend is feeling insecure for some reason. Just reassure her that there is no connection with the other girl and it is totally over. Reassure her that she is the one that matters NOW. Good luck
2006-06-13 07:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by sparkie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well u should of told but why is she makeing a big issue if ur not going with ur school girl anymore. I think it's a small issue 2. But I guess she thinks that u probably cheated on her or something. So try to talk 2 her all about the girl the school n tell her evr thing cause u don't this to happen again.
2006-06-13 14:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past significant others should stay in the PAST. Current g/f sounds like a jealous nut. She only has reason to be concerned if she specifically asked you a question and you outright lied or purposefully left something out. One thing that concerns me is that she was snooping enough to "find out". I don't think past relationships deserve any mention in a current relationship unless you were married to the ex, other than to say that you have exes. Obviously you have moved on from the ex, so g/f needs to quit worrying about it and GET A LIFE!
2006-06-13 14:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had lied to her about your past, that would be one thing. But since you just didn't tell her, and your previous girlfriend has no effect at all on your life now, I don't think it should be a big issue. Has she told you about all of her past boyfriends? I doubt it. The past is past, and it should stay that way. If she asks you about it, you should answer truthfully, but I don't think you're obligated to tell her every little detail about your past relationships.
2006-06-13 14:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by mathgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends what she thinks you're hiding. If the old relationship was a significant one (several years, produced children or some other life altering change,maybe she was your first) the GF thinks you are hiding important pieces of yourself.
Of course maybe the GF is the jealous sort. Or insecure.
It sounds petty to me.
2006-06-13 14:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem small to you but from a woman's point of view it's not. If there is truly nothing between you then you shouldn't mind telling your now girlfriend about it. That way she feels more comfortable with you that you can be open and honest with her about everything. Honesty the key to all sucessful relationships!
2006-06-13 14:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by amariac218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't have made a big issue. It should have been an easy discussion. Unless she questioned you about it in the past and you didn't answer.
2006-06-13 14:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by -trav- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it isnt that big a deal she is over reacting cuz like as long as there is no relation of close relationship it should b no biggie ur gf if probably jelous os how did she find out
2006-06-13 14:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's totally overreacting. It's not a big deal. I think that she just may be insecure and want to know what went wrong with your past relationship so that it doesn't happen to your relationship.
2006-06-13 14:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be important to her..but why?Past is past in my opinion..Did she ask you when you met her about your past?If so and you failed to mention this other past g/f then she may feel your hiding something from her about it..Just reassure her its over and means nothing to you..Maybe shes just a lil' bit over dramatic but hey it will be okay if you just discuss it with her and then move on to better things together..=)
2006-06-13 14:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋