was wondering what would be the outcome next time we meet
2006-06-13 07:21:47 · 13 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That might not have been a good idea. Are you sure you want to meet him again? You don't seem to like him very much...
2006-06-13 07:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know your boyfriend, so it's impossible to answer your question. I can say that, whether he did anything wrong, you didn't make the situation better by hanging up on him.
Let's be honest. You didn't care what his answer would be. For some reason, the fact that he went out and you didn't know where he was made you anxious and upset. You hung up on him because you were angry and wanted to hurt him.
If he has ever cheated on you before or done anything illegal or dangerous, perhaps you have reason to be upset. But if he was simply gone too long, or if you're upset simply because he isn't behaving the way you think he -should- behave, then you need to look at yourself. As your boyfriend, he is accountable to you for some things, but not for everything he does or everywhere he goes. And certainly, if -you- ask him a question, you should give him as much time as he needs to answer.
There are a lot of things that may happen the next time you see each other. He may apologize because he understands you were upset. He may tell you to back off. He may continue to refuse to tell you where he was because, after all, he's a man and shouldn't have to tell you everything. He may try to understand what you were feeling.
Frankly, you shouldn't wait until the next time you meet. You should let him know you're sorry for the way you acted. You're not apologizing for asking the question. You're apologizing for your reaction when he didn't answer quickly enough for you. Tell him how you felt -- that you were worried or angry or upset or anxious -- and why. Then LET HIM TALK. The way he handles this situation will tell you a lot about how the two of you will handle difficult situations in the future.
But understand, at this point, this is actually more about you than it is about him. I can honestly say that my husband is usually the bigger person in our relationship -- and the first to say he's sorry. Gradually, with his patience and understanding, I've felt safe in being the first to apologize when I've acted badly -- even when I believe I was justified.
I wish you the best in resolving this problem. It will feel uncomfortable and you'll want him to be the one who's wrong (believe me, I know how that is). But even if he was doing the wrong thing when he was out (stayed too long, hung out with a bad crowd, etc.), you're never going to make your relationship work if you ask him to talk, then cut him off in anger.
2006-06-13 14:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by ~unfolding.fire~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it could be that he did not know what to say to you because he did not want to tell you where he was going. May be he was going out to meet his male friends. The question you need to ask yourself is has he been acting this way a lot or is it because you recently had a fight?.
By the way slamming the phone on his ear if you ask me is not going to solve anything but make him be more upset with you.
Take care and good luck.....anytime
2006-06-13 14:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have waited for an answer........ we have nothing to work with.....lets see what he saids when you see him next time.
and dont be so obsess about how long he stay places unless he have giving you reasons to not trust him....men go places sometimes and run their mouth worst than a women dont do that.
wht you have to do is trust him give him enough rope to hang hisself and then catch him....and maybe you just overreacting like i said we dont know if he cheated before so i cant really tell you what that was about.good luck.
2006-06-13 14:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try some punctuation marks. And just because you put a question mark at the end of a run-on sentence doesn't make it a question.
2006-06-13 14:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl he is going to fuss and curse like ain't no bodies business get your ear plugs ready.
2006-06-13 14:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pretty one sided seems you are bossy selfish and overcrowding try giving him a kiss before u open your MOUTH
2006-06-13 14:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by robpeterson625 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has any sense whatsoever, you will never see him again. How stupid you were - and childish - and spoiled - and -------
2006-06-13 14:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have problems and for long you will have no boyfriend
2006-06-13 14:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all gals including u are alike
2006-06-13 14:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by jitu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋