My ex called me out of the blue one night and started complaining about his gf at the time (now they r broked up) He told me how much he misses me and that he's never loved anyone the way he loved me and that he wanted me back(he even got emotional on the phone). I do love him, but now he never calls me, and it's strange becasue that was the main reason why I broke up with him becasue we lacked communication. We even talked about that. He hasn't called me in like a week and I'm really upset, becasue if you truly love someone you'll call them from time to time. How should I go about this situation? HELP!!
2006-06-13 07:20:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it sounds like he is playing with your emotions a little bit..dont let him do that! he just broke up with his new girlfriend and hes remembering how great you were now that she is out of the picture but the truth is there is a reason why the two of you arent together and it sounds to me like that reason is because he didnt treat you right. just because you care about him and he has decided to care about you again doesnt mean its a good idea to get back with him. you should try to move on and find someone who appreciates you and takes the time to call just to say hi, and doesnt leave you waiting around and upset. good luck hun!
2006-06-13 07:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hez 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would just let it be. If he said he would call then let him do it. You don't want to look like you are begging him again see, there was a reason you broke up the last time! You have to have communication in a relationship! without talking to each other be kinda hard to know what was going on and happening with one another...right? so, why put yourself through all of that again? Life is too short to be worried all the time and when they don't call you wonder what is he/she doing that is so important that couldn't pick up the phone for 3 seconds just to check in ...see how things are ...right? Good Luck!!!
2006-06-13 07:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that he is just trying to get with someone becuase of his other relationship didnt work out. From a guys perspective i think that he knew that his other relationship wasnt going to work out so he thought that if he called up you then he could have someone. I think that you should just let it be and try to leave him out of your life, becuase if you sit around thinking of him you will never be able to move on. You dont want to be just a filler girl in between his other relationships.
2006-06-13 07:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by brocklese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably dismiss most of what he says as blah blah blah, and then try this mind game. Take him out of the boyfriend/ex category and put him into the having fun with my girl friends category. most likely, you dont get bent when your party hardy friends or chat girls dont call, do you? unhook the emotional ties you have to him and you can continue the healing process.
2006-06-13 07:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by berthabuns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need professional help; couples therapy. If he's not willing to go with you, then he doesn't really love you.
If he's not communicating with you regularly, then he's communicating with someone else and using you as a backup.
2006-06-13 07:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by cxs33m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's lying, becos u misses having a party in ur pants thats why he goes like i miss u when he doesnt even call u.
2006-06-13 07:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he dosen't start calling more you're going to assume he's cheating
2006-06-13 07:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by c1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him.. and if you don't want to do that .. you'll have to move on. i know it's hard but it would be for the best.
2006-06-13 07:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he doesn't call u to see that u 'll call him or not to see if u love him or not.......maybe try to call him and ask him if he really love u or it's just a joke for him.............GOOD LUCK......
2006-06-13 07:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex... leave it that way
2006-06-13 07:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋