He notmally does not initiate callls or time together but he seems to quicky agree to time together. he does not stop me if we go to a movie and I stroke his arm or hold his hand. I really got it bad and I am scared to death of his just being too nice to hurt my feelings by saying stop.
2006-06-13 07:17:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if he didn't like it he wouldn't be with you
2006-06-13 07:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by bb m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he agrees to time together but doesn't initiate it, he's just going with the flow. How do I know? I dated a guy like that once and I asked him why and he told me. I mostly called him and suggested outings, he would mostly agree, but he rarely asked me to go anywhere because it wasn't that he didn't want to be with me, it's just that he didn't necessarily want to either. It didn't matter either way. That to me is not my idea of a good thing. I wouldn't get too excited about it if I were you. Until he starts asking to see you (which means HE wants to see YOU) then just take it for what it is, a good time initiated by you and agreed upon by him. Oh and the stroking the arm bit, he's a guy, they like affection too, if you gave him more than that he'd take that too. I still wouldn't get all hyped about it, not being mean just don't want you to get your hopes up for nothing.
Good luck.
2006-06-13 15:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he goes out with you and lets you stroke his arm, doesn't really mean that he likes you. He more than likely likes you because if he didn't, he wouldn't let you do these thing to him. The only way you'll know that he likes you is if he TELLS YOU. Talk to him about that and see what he has to say. Make sure that you're honest and he's honest with how he feels as well.
2006-06-13 14:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is enjoying the fact that you are giving him all this attention without having to actually pursue you. Try backing off and see what happens. I am not saying that you will get the answer that you want, but you will get an answer none the less. If he is interested he will pursue you if he is not he will move on. Don't keep giving if you are not getting anything back.
2006-06-13 14:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by yipee34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said it sounds like he is OK when he is out with you. If this is true I would refer to the main point that men are not huge talkers on the phone. Remember men are visual creatures and most of all not really that intrigued to talk on the phone, but get them out where they can touch and visually see you they like that. According to what you said and if my assumption is true that he likes to be out with you, just not on the phone I would say he very much likes you.
2006-06-13 14:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sierrawolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that his actions mean he is interested he may just be that kind of person... my and my guy friends hold hands and touch all the time but im not interested in them and theyre not interested in me... if you want to know if hes interested ask him... if you really want to know... just ask otherwise youll drive yourself crazy
2006-06-13 14:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by swthrt182986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes... but maybe just ask him what he is thinking...he may just be confused and not know so he doesn't want to initiate anything...
2006-06-13 14:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you but is too shy to make the moves.
2006-06-13 14:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by Baconbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yes maybe no
you have nothing concrete enough to let go of your heart
2006-06-13 14:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's giving you all the "signs". I think you're safe. He likes you.
2006-06-13 14:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does, guys are pretty blunt when they want you to leave them alone
2006-06-13 14:20:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋