i was abused in every way possible by both my parents when i was growing up.now i have post trauma stress disorder and take meds for it. i was thinking of writing them both a letter and telling them that i do not want to have anything to do with them more. just shutting them both out of my life. i never learned how to deal with this anger that i have towards them.
2006-06-13 07:11:11 · 2 answers · asked by silkesuperfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is terrible to have to do this to relatives & one can still be civil with them, but this does not mean that you have to tolerate abusive of any kind from them. Our family has had to cut off someone because they refuse to change their negative behavior, or even acknowledge that they have a problem. I am afraid they will never realize it until they are cut off from absolutely everyone.
2006-06-13 07:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your emotional distress and abuse you went thru with your parents and hope things work out in what ever wait is best for you physical and emotional. In my opinion you are doing the best for yourself and for your parents by shutting them out at least for Right know and taking care of yourself. Remember you come first get the help you need and maybe somewhere in the future you will feel comfortable in bringing them (your parents) back into your life, if not as long as you have closer and become content with your life keep going. Good luck and god bless.
2006-06-13 14:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋