i was with somebody and i was in love with him but we met at the wrong time and he just has too much stuff going on right now and he also has a fear of getting hurt again, he ended it and told me that he loves me and he doesnt want us to possibly break uop and never see me again...but he also said things like i dont know if we are meant to be together....and i dont know how i feel i am confused right now. should i just forget him i dont think i can....i love him so much, should i just leave him alone and let him sweat it out for awhile...you know not answer his calls and avoid him.
2006-06-13 07:05:28 · 12 answers · asked by bryanwithay22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you need to answer his calls but also give him some breathing room maybe after a while he will feel like he really do want to get married you know what im saying still don't pressure him about the situation and let him feel like you still want him but you still need to give him some room
2006-06-13 07:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the hardest question I think someone could ever ask. Every one is so different and no one knows except you really. I am going through the same phase right now, Dating someone that is showing no interest in getting married and we both love each other. But if it's not going toward your goal then your moving away from it. You need to sort out your priorities and then go from there.
2006-06-13 07:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you from 1st hand experience that when me & my boyfriend got together he did not want to even think about being married because he was hurt. Well after being with him for 2 years he proposed to me. So there is always a chance for you. Hang in there!!!
2006-06-13 07:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bougie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marriage is your goal, then obviously your on a road leading to heartbreak. End it now, before you get too involved. There are lots of people out there seeking the same thing you are.
2006-06-13 07:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by stephete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him alittle space a nd time. not to much space though bc then he'll think you're the same way as the last person.you have to show him you love him.he'll come around when he finally see and starts to trust again.
2006-06-13 07:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap thats what i did. After 3 weeks he was calling everyday and decided he couldnt be without me.
2006-06-13 07:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get to where he is comfortable with himself and then you can start hanging out again and maybe being married.Good luck!
2006-06-13 07:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ruin things by getting married?
2006-06-13 07:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by moonspawnhotmailcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him your feelings if still he doesnt want to be with you ignore him for a while he will come back if he loves you
2006-06-13 07:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up on true love
2006-06-13 09:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sherie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋