2006-06-13 06:55:43 · 23 answers · asked by john r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends how old you are and how long you have been going out....generally it is just something that happens and is not arranged beforehand.
2006-06-13 06:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that would be the most wrong thing possible. It may be "cool" or make you "important" but think of it this way, what would happen if you got your poor girlfriend pregnant. You are held responsible to take care of the child. Education, food, clothing, proper care. Even worse. . .abortion. Children are being killed everyday because stupid boyfriends are getting the mothers pregnant! SO SHAPE UP AND BE A MAN! Wait till marriage. It's something shared that's special between to people who truly love each other and will be together for the rest of their lives. Please. . . think about the consequences.
2006-06-13 07:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by rockindinos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something to whicih you both have to be prepared to commit. If you are ready to have sex with your girlfriend, you can express your desire in a way that doesn't offend her or scare her away. Simply tell her that you believe your relationship has progressed to the point where you are ready whenever SHE feels she is ready. That way you've accomplished your goal and the ball is in her court. If you don't want to wait, you can always leave your current relationship and look for "sex-only" relationships. That way, everyone knows what they want, what they are expecting, and no one gets hurt unintentionally.
2006-06-13 06:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by pjonas69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you wait until you've asked her to marry you, and gone through with it? You risk more than just fathering a child. She (or you) may have an STD and not know. Think about real hard first. Most importantly, don't think with your penis, use the head sitting on your neck.
2006-06-13 07:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking,then it stands to reason that your relationship with this young lady is not as secure as it should be. No, I'd wait until I knew her better and after about 5 years or so, if your relationship is all that, ask her to marry you - then you don't have to ask her to have sex. She will want to.
2006-06-13 06:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are seriously asking the people on yahoo answers if you should have sex with your girlfriend then you truly are sad. go live your life. get a hobby. go paint. you must be immature to be asking. are you a teen? dont pressure your girlfriend to do anything she doesnt want to do. then she wont be able to trust you any longer. good luck buddy!
2006-06-13 07:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by cheesesticks320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your maturity level is such that you're asking a bunch of strangers on Yahoo Answers, then my guess is no.
2006-06-13 06:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by circe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, when the answer is NO
when the time is right you will BOTH know, no questions asked
2006-06-13 06:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you are old enough to be responsible and use protection, then yes.
2006-06-13 06:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by angiebklyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It should come to you both naturally not having to ask for it. give it time if is meant to be it will if not it wasn't...Be patient!!!
2006-06-13 07:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋