2006-06-13 06:53:27 · 19 answers · asked by andall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, but you won't come out winning unless you make a decision. Someone is bound to get hurt either way. Breaking someones heart doesn't make you the better person, but honesty is always respected in the end. MAKE A DECISION.
2006-06-13 07:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Claudianco3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we can care for two people. I think we can be attracted to two people. I think to truly love two people is hard. I think love, true unconditional love, is one person at a time. You can fall out of love as easily as you fall in love. Keeping the love is work. So sometimes we find new attractions. I don't know what the situation is. If you are married you need to see why someone new is a "love" interest. Soul searching is needed to truly know which if either are truly love.
2006-06-13 14:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Laura K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. I'm very happily married and love my husband. We've just celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary. I've also had a relationship with another man since last year and I love him too. I love them both in different ways but that doesn't mean my love is any less strong because there's more than one.
Yes, it's probably wrong but I'm happier and it's my view that my husband probably gets an easier life because I have someone else to think about so he gets nagged less!
2006-06-14 19:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kissmesoftly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and may therefore be biased. However, i will share my opinion for what its worth. Lately, I found out that my husband has been intimately relating with another woman. It broke my heart. Honestly, I doubt that one can love 2 people intimately; equally; in everyone's full knowledge(??) and have a fulfilled love experience. Am I missing something here?! Serial monogamy please! Let's respect the love our partners bring our way and when we feel ready to move on, I suggest we openly say so.
2006-06-14 23:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by lavender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible to love more but we live in a society with rules that are there to protect us and others and being with more than one person at one time divides our loyalties and can damage the spirit unless we commit to one and find another kind of love for the others. It can also be a sign of low self-love.
2006-06-13 14:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u can luv more than one person at the same time. the real ? is are you IN LOVE with two people?! can you truly be in love with two people, yes, cuz different things about each one can be the reason you are in love with them, but how do you make the choice to let one go?
2006-06-13 23:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by thilitha_tipton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think i could love 2 people at once or at least feel the same way about both. I don't think i could live with myself knowing that i am sharing my love -- i wouldn't even class myself as the devoted wife i would say it was more cheating
but thats my opinion
2006-06-14 05:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to love more then one person at a time but not to be in love with more then one person at a time
2006-06-13 20:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by bluedophin005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possibvle to love two people, there is no rules about how many people you can love it just happens and you cant possibly help that gud luk mate
2006-06-14 18:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by hunniewilko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can. Althought you may only be able to give time to one of them. I love my wife, but I also still love a woman I haven't seen in 15years.
2006-06-13 14:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by badwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋