they all come to him for advice spend hours talking to him ,i trust him implicitly but i feel left out what should i do?
2006-06-13 06:47:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is obviously loved liked and respected whatever, people open up to him, do the same ,you have a man who talks and listens talk to him he will understand and will most likely want you to speek your mind.get on with it n switch ya pc off
2006-06-13 07:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
try to befriend them yourself. there is no reason why you can't both be friends with these girls. if they see you making an honest effort to get to know them and not trying to take him away from them then perhaps they will open up more and include you in their visits. trust me all of my friends are guys and we go through this every time they get a girlfriend. they automatically are threatened by me but when I am nice to them and get to know them then we usually end up being friends and we all do stuff together. its harder with some girls than it is with others but it usually works out however when they ask him to choose they always lose so don't ever make that mistake. those friends of his were there before you and if something happens they will be there after you so pick your battles wisely. suggest to him that maybe you have them all over for dinner or a cook out or something and make sure you incorporate that it was your idea to have them all over. it will let them know that you are ok with their friendship and that you want to be their friend and enjoy their company too.
2006-06-13 13:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. As long as he comes home to you every night. Don't be jealous or vindictive. Instead, thing of him as a caring individual which many go to for advice.
For example, if your man was a OB doctor, would you be jealous that he sees the privates' of other women? No, that's his profession.
In this case, maybe he has good advice. Maybe he knows what's he's talking about.
Praise him.
2006-06-13 13:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as tho you aren't quite at the stage of BBQ-ing his golf clubs yet just mention it to him in this way.
just like you've described it in this question i'm sure the next time you go out with in others company he will pay you a little more attention and maybe even try to get you in on some more of the conversation this is not to divert the atention from himself but to let the others know that you are also there.
rule is you want him to want him to be with you!
not for you to pull him away from his friends (this is only going to make you look like a phycho) haha!
hope this helps,
Nick
2006-06-13 13:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Stickman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sign that he gets along well with women, and perhaps his brain funcitons are programmed closely to that of a female. This could prove very helpful in sustaining your marriage from an understanding level. However, this type of behavior also lends itself to homosexual tendencies, and you may become jeoulous of the wrong sex.....
2006-06-13 13:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by pjonas69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could have possibly happened, that "your man" that you feel so insecure? When it;s a love from the centre of your being you should know that you and you alone have complete love.
I might add that if you are worried, than your conscious is to blame.
2006-06-13 13:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by shannon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him too. It sounds like you feel left out because you don't talk to him for hours about stuff.
2006-06-13 13:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by J K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz have a verbal open heart communication with him and make him realise that you love him n want some private time of yours so plz limit the arrival of friends.
2006-06-13 13:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you really trust him or else you wouldnt be asking that question. Do you know all of these women, if not ask him to introduce you to them and once you can trust them you'll be fine....i hope
2006-06-13 13:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by LEFTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, i guess. tell him how u feel... but dont get all whiny and bitchy about it. if he loves you, he wouldnt want u to feel that way. then maybe he'll try to find ways to include u in that aspect of his life. oh... and it'll probably be wise to get to know his female friends and be nice. u know what people say... keep ur friends close, and ur enemies closer. *sorry, im being over dramatic*
2006-06-13 13:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋