Need any info on the subject of paralises and erectial dysfunction. He only has feeling from chest up, so we are wondering if he can get an erection? Any info or personal experiences are greatly appreciated. He has takin viagra and said it has worked but not sure if everytime he took it it worked. Please help us we dont know where to find info about this subject.
2006-06-13 06:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
I know this sounds sappy....but love is the best thing you can offer him, i know from expireance that it's annoying when you can't feel the pleasure of sex but your partner can (i have very little feeling from my collorbone down due to sensory nerve damage, i'm just glad all my motor nerves work properly, i go without feeling but no one ever knows that because i have learned how to fuction without feeling). the best to can do is give him emotional love, and if you are really hard up on sex, maybe he can finger you or something, but sex is not the most important thing, in compareison to real love, sex means nothing.
2006-06-13 06:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria Sparda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra does not work for a paraplegic. There must be physical stimulation for viagra to work, and a paraplegic can't feel anything - in most cases - below the waist. Even for those who do retain some sensation in that area, a full erection is highly unlikely.
Your only real options are oral - his physician can refer the two of you to a specialist who can show you how to make that happen - and manual stimulation, either through his touch or the use of articficial aids. Again, that specialist mentioned above will be able to show the two of you how to make it happen that way. Be prepared to be patient and be open-minded. You need not "cheat" on him to get your needs met, but discovering what works for the two of you will take some time and practice. Do be aware that many couples live happily together, enjoying a very full marriage, for a lifetime despite his or her paraplegia. You can do it, too. Good luck - and tell your fella from me he's lucky to have a lady as caring as you!
2006-06-13 07:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra and a some of your mouth work wll get it up for 30 min or more. Takes about 1 hour to get into his system.on an empty stomach with half glass water
Viagra and mouth stimulation is a sure thing
2006-06-13 06:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by DonQuiote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that erections are still possible. If he can watch you while you stimulate him his brain will still know the pleasures and send signals to the genital areas. I gotta' say I have to admire you for your courage and your commitment to this man. It sounds like he is a very lucky man. He may not think so right now, but he is.
2006-06-13 08:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he can an erection is caused by bloodflow not muscles
or nerves like some of these fools think.
erections start in the brain although him having erections on demand might be tougher viagra should help
there is an execllent website for the both of you please check it out www.carecure.com
good luck
2006-06-13 07:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by canada1usa0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude can burn in Hell for his crimes for all I care... however that being stated, when you intended this as a moderate on Islam most of the time.. there is no rationale for that. Plenty of first rate Muslims on this planet. But you can also no longer have intended it that approach in any respect... no method to inform with it in writing as a substitute than speech.
2016-09-09 00:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-13 06:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by mark q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest giving him blow jobs 5 times daily, to encourage blood circulation and improve his nerve functions
2006-06-13 06:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by evancds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the only site a found....
http://www.paralysis.org/site/c.erJMJUOxFmH/b.1306549/k.A2F4/Sexuality_for_Men.htm
2006-06-13 06:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋