2006-06-13 06:28:56 · 26 answers · asked by *stApledHeart* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends on the circumstance, Sometimes yes. Unfortunately sometimes we men think with our smaller heads.
2006-06-13 06:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
When guys cheat it is fairly similar to when girls cheat. Yes, guys feel guilt (but not all of them care) and yes, I would say 99% are really sorry and about .5% are sorry but have no idea why it was wrong. I firmly believe everyone who cheats knows what they are doing and understands that, when their significant other finds out, they are going to be hurt. Cheating, however, is not simply a matter of guys. Girls also cheat at nearly the same rates. There is probably a greater frequency of girls cheating with someone of the same gender than there is of guys. Also, I believe girls cheat more often as a retaliation for their significant other cheating (which makes no sense considering that, yes ladies, even guys have feelings!)
2006-06-13 13:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by REDJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, the dirt-bag losers that cheat can and may feel sorry for what they have done. However, that is no excuse for the fact that they ruined your trust in them and the relationship. Make the guy in question feel like an absolute jerk for what he did. Make him beg for forgiveness, make him your slave!
Okay, maybe you don't have to go that far. However, if a guy cheats on you and you let him come back into the relationship like nothing happened, he probably doesn't feel that guilty anymore. Because, hey, if you don't care then why should he? Be careful on how you handle him and the relationship for a while. What his actions and what he says, see if you can tell that he is truly sorry and really wants to fix things. Most guys are pigs, but some (only a tiny tiny few) are man enough to admit their mistakes and try to learn from them. Which, in turn, makes them only 10% pig.
2006-06-13 13:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by alicia_henderson85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone with a conscience feels remorse. However, there is something inside someone that allows them to chose to lie, cheat or hurt those they love. My personal opinion a good person would just break up if they had that desire so it isn't a betrayal. I think some are sorry, caught up in the moment, others well they are destined to lie and decieve. Forgiveness goes a long way and is something that is necessary to move on though.
2006-06-13 13:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know what they are doing alright they are just some sick bastards who needs their penises chopped off for no farther use. If a guy ever cheats on you and you find out break it off no matter how many times he says he is sorry it doesn't matter once a dog always a dog is the saying my mother used to tell me don't put your feelings on the line for some loser who gets a kick out of cheating on you you are better then that let him know that you don't need no inconsiderate young man who insists on cheating on you to make you happy you can do it all bye you self.
2006-06-13 13:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We aren't all the same. Some are sorry, some aren't. Some know what they did, some don't. Some cheat and some don't. If yours cheated, it doesn't matter if he's sorry or if he knows; he broke your trust, and probably your heart. There's better men.
2006-06-13 13:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy is the same. Some are REALLY SORRY, but others can be completely ignorant. The best thing to do is figure out what type of guy you have and if he's ignorant, desert him before you get hurt.
2006-06-13 13:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by jessesangul987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, very unlikely. Know what they are doing yes. My husband cheated on his first with three times before he ended the relationship and married me. So do your really think he is sorry. No! Yes I believe in what comes around goes around - "Oh, well."
2006-06-13 13:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they may be sorry depending on the situation, but that doesn't mean he didn't go searching elsewhere or fall into the trap, and it doesn't mean they wont do it again either..make him suffer and know what he has lost due to his irresponsible behaviour...and don't take him back right away either (if you even decide to) because then he will feel he could do it again and u'll do the same thing...
2006-06-13 13:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time if you know he's a good guy then he is sorry but if he isn't then you know to let him go. Most guys just want attention and they'll get it because if another woman wants the same thing thats all that matters.
2006-06-13 13:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by shanbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With regard to human relationships, couples may expect sexual monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery.
Many people consider cheating to be any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, which may or may not include sexual monogamy. For example, in polyamory, the concepts of commitment and fidelity do not hinge on sexual or emotional monogamy.
2006-06-13 13:31:48 · answer #11 · answered by Nacho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋