I have been chatting with a guy for the past 5 months. I have been very friendly and close to him. Since i got his email from a matrimonial site one day my elder sister took his phone number because she wanted to inquire about this guy. That day when i chat with him i told him we are friends and nothing more than that. When i decided that i must meet him, the whole week i have been waiting for his call but he didn't call. Infact when i saw him online & asked whether we are going to meet, he changed the day of meeting since he told he is busy. But he wanted to have dinner in the first meeting itself. I told him it's not possible for me and i told him i want to decide whether he wanted to be serious with me after meeting. But he isn't ready for any type of serious relationship. I told him i am really sorry i cant continue with friendship because i m being forced to do so. Now he doesn't want to chat with me anymore....he thinks it's my fault & i have resented him..I really miss him.
2006-06-13 06:18:45 · 4 answers · asked by Mehwish Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm going to tell you my experience and you can decide what you should do. I had chatted with a female for 4 months and like you I developed feelings with her. I would also call on the phone and talk with her. We decided to meet and two days before she was supposed to come (I payed for her ticket), she backed out. She also didn't want to talk to me anymore and didn't tell me why. I must tell you we feel to think it's something we did, but in reality, it's an insecurity they have and can't commit to others. It's nothing that you did. But I can suggest that you work on yourself in every aspect and make sure you're happy with yourself, though and honest evaluation by a close friend will help you in that. Once you've made those needed changes, than feel good about yourself and let no one get you down if a relationship doesn't work out. One last thing; as long as you've tried every avenue in your power to make a relationship work, you can leave it with a clean conscience knowing you did all you could. After that, just move on and don't hold any animosity. You never now that somewhere down the line what you say or do may have a positive affect on others and touch their hearts.
2006-06-13 06:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Level424me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frequently people purport to be something they're not (especially physically). Therefore, those people can never meet without giving their secret away. Do you really want to continue a relationship with someone who is dishonest or unable to commit to meeting?
2006-06-13 06:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by msbedouin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is running,do not wait too much
2006-06-13 06:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by egrfethe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an idiot have you not learned about all the predaters out there.
2006-06-13 06:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋