ok u guys I really need your help. there is this guy, that says that he loves me, but we met in the internet, so I'm not really sure that he loves me, and I'm not sure if I like him, but I told him that I like him. but now he is in the army in Armenia, and he didn't write me for days, and I feel like I don't like him, but I can't tell him that. please help me!! what should I do?
2006-06-13 06:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by shushan2005armenia 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
but once I told him that I can't talk to him anymore, and he was like " ok I don't like u", and I told him to forget my e mail, but the next day, he was like "I missed u, can we please talk?", its really stupid, cuz I didn't even see him, and he says that he is going to come to USA after ayear or something. whenever we chat, he waits for me like for 8 hours, just for talking to me for 10 minuts. do u think he likes me or he lies to me? but I'm sure that I don't like him, and I don't know how to tell him about it, cuz its really hard to bracke his hearth
2006-06-13 06:39:17 · update #1
You have to be honest at all times. Don't string someone along if you don't feel the same way they do. That's not fair.
Sorry...but you have to tell him. He's a big boy...he'll get over it.
2006-06-13 06:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 you haven't really met him yet. Meeting on the internet is somewhat of a fantasy relationship. Someone you can talk to without having to know them. If he's in the service, he can't write everyday, and you don't need to feel like you owe him. Just stop writing or emailing. If he writes you, you don't have to respond, and if you do just make it short and simple. Like: I'm glad we've been able to talk, but right now I want to focus on work or school or whatever and am not interested in a relationship right now. Please take care. That's all you need to do.
2006-06-13 13:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him
And
Dont trust net chatting friends
2006-06-13 13:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by --> ( Charles ) <-- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure don't say it. I would say I care about you, but I am not interested in a relaionship at this time. I will write to you as a Good Friend if you want!!!
2006-06-13 13:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mrsdonmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion! some time v notice a guy more then his expectations in a party, as u say he feel nervousness when he talk to u. it may possible u look hot in party and he want just dance with u lol.....
just wait till he perpose u or say u "I LOVE U"
2006-06-13 14:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by simple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋