I have a lot of people that i know telling me it is cheating on my husband and that it is morally wrong. why is it that they also feel that my CHOSEN religion (pagan) is the cause of that. I need some answers here because i am comfused!!
2006-06-13 06:11:42 · 15 answers · asked by CoriLynne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The reason people can't cope with your choices, is mostly because they themselves have restricted their moral choices to someone else's code of beliefs. You have yours and "they" have theirs. They are all being envious of you and your freedom.
You are an individual, don't spend time worrying about what other feel. You are a wonderul person and your choice to live your life is your responsibility and privilege. Enjoy it. Just think, Hitler used to think that people with Brown eyes were imperfect human beings and only people with Blue eyes were superior! Imagine how this worldd would be if we all believed that stupid theory.
2006-06-13 06:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by PJ M 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Honestly I don't know what being a pagan is all about! But if most people say that bisexuality or homosexuality for that matter is wrong, it's because they are afraid of what is different, to me it's just fear! Why should we think anything of the people that are that way? Why should some even care?... Basically it's because of some people's values and morals.
2006-06-13 06:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only cheating on your husband if he doesn't know that you are involved with another woman. If he knows then that is a different story. I can't say if bisexuality is right or wrong. I just know what the Bible says. I am not familiar with the pagan religion, but I am sure it has nothing to do with what is going on with your sexuality.
2006-06-13 06:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by totally ignored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible and the commandments, it is wrong. Nine times out of ten it will cause problems in a couple, if you think about it, you will admit it is morally wrong. As far as religion, I dont know much about paganism so i cant say.
2006-06-13 06:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi sexuality itself is not wrong and very much natural.But if you have a feeling for the other and have a husband,dear,it's not honest.You can still have equal feelings for both,in this case,be open and let your husband know the truth.If he's ok with it,you are no more a cheat.If he's not digesting that and you want to carry on your life with him,dump the other one.Work on your sacred marriage.
2006-06-13 06:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are now not a 'homo hater' you could quit making use of the phrase--'homosexual' is generally much less offensive. I supply them a pitying seem and say, "You have NO inspiration what you are speakme approximately.' Doesn't occur ordinarily when you consider that my spouse and I seem like an individual's aunties (we're) and men and women ordinarily expect we are sisters.
2016-09-09 00:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As with everything else in life, lots of people fear things that they just can't begin to understand. Sometimes that fear turns to hate. Could be that these people don't understand your choices in life. Your religion is a choice you make for yourself. Cheating on your husband, well, that's universally viewed as being wrong.
2006-06-13 06:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people may think it's wrong because it isn't 'the way' things are supposed to be. If your a guy, you like girls and vis versa.
2006-06-13 06:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by To sweet for 16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we live in a very narrowminded society, because it is (seemingly) safe. You will never be able to change it, so just shake your head and carry on the way that makes you feel good.
2006-06-13 06:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly i believe that bi-sexuality is not wrong, i believe that if you have these feelings towards the opposite sex then its alright
2006-06-13 06:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋