I have been 100.100% faithful in my relationship with him, and all others. He claims that he needs my passwords.
2006-06-13 06:06:57 · 52 answers · asked by KelBean 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are not 16 by the way.. We are in our twenties, thats what makes it so sad! I have nothing wrong with showing him my stuff but he wants all my passwords!
2006-06-13 06:19:34 · update #1
He's a control freak. The only way a relationship works is if each person has their own interests, space, and privacy.
2006-06-13 06:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE take the advice from all of these people and GET OUT! I had a relationship that started like this, it got worse and worse and it took me a year after we broke up and finally a restraining order to get rid of him. It is a sure sign of him being a control freak and this can be very scary. He has a lot of insecurities and is NOT ready to be in a relationship until he gets that under control. I am dating a guy now for about 7 months and never once has he asked for any passwords. We both are very faithful and honest but respect each other's privacy at the same time. BE CAREFUL WITH THIS ONE!
2006-06-13 12:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have each other's passwords. We didn't demand them from each other, we're just comfortable enough with each other and our relationship that we have nothing to hide and over the course of our relationship the passwords have been exchanged. If you aren't comfortable giving him yours, then don't. It takes time to build a trusting relationship and your boyfriend needs to realize that demanding that you obey his every rule will only make you want to rebel more. Tell him you aren't comfortable enough in the relationship yet to give up all your privacy. Tell him if that's a problem to hit the road. You're better off anyway.
2006-06-13 06:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every female should have her own privacy. You never know what his intentions may be. Some things take time and if you're in a relationship for a long time things like giving out your password and secret codes happen naturally , it becomes a non-issue
2006-06-13 06:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be weary of someone who is afriad that YOU are lying. They usually have a guilty conscience.
if you were married, I'd say that a) you shouldn't hide anything but that b) you have the level of trust that you don't need to see everything
my hubby and I still have separate email accounts. I think we know each other's passwords just from checking email for the other while he was stuck in an airport, or driving or something. but I have never logged in just to see who is emailing him. I have faith in him, he is allowed to have friends and a life away from me, and I don't need to know everything. if I did, what would we ever talk about?
2006-06-13 06:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats lame. You need some sort of privacy. He seems like he doesn't trust trust you. I wouldn't give him the password. That is your stuff. Of make up a new email and give him the old one and use the old email sometimes. Just to ge him off your back.
2006-06-13 06:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have all my fiance's passwords. We've been together for 5 years. I sometimes log onto different things for him and pay bills, or whatever, when he calls from work and asks me.
Otherwise, I never log onto any of his accounts.
But you better be sure that you're not doing anything that you want to hide from him. That's no way to have a relationship.
But he should trust you enough to never log onto your accounts and check up on you.
If you've only been together for a short while, don't give out your passwords.
2006-06-13 06:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe thats true once your married and you know for sure 100% that he and you are in it for the long haul but I would never give a boyfriend or girlfriend access to any of my passwords. He doesnt need them he just wants that control. Stand your ground.
2006-06-13 06:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Bluris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need for your bf to know everything. He has no right to know your passwords to anything there are some things that should be known only by you. If you have never been unfaithful and he believes you then what's the big deal. If there is no trust in your relationship then maybe it needs to end.
Do you know all of his passwords????
2006-06-13 06:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. Everyone in a relationship needs some sort of privacy. Tell him to either deal with the fact that you like some privacy or leave!
2006-06-13 06:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by hpfan14wyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋