2006-06-13 06:00:20 · 20 answers · asked by jerzygurl76 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, I guess I should have mentioned that he proposed to me and I accepted. But after being engaged for 2 years I gave back the ring. Also, here is another zinger, I am best friends with his sister-in-law!
2006-06-13 06:29:01 · update #1
The fact is you probably cant avoid hurting his feelings. However you need to tell him that Im sorry I am ready for a type of commitment and if you are not ready for that, then maybe we both need to go our seperate ways.
And believe me, if its not working, get out of the relationship. It really is horrible wasting more time with someone who is making you miserable versus the time you could be using to find someone who could make you happy. ;)
Good Luck.
2006-06-13 06:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by niteangel2283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real way, other than to just tell him how you feel.
I'm guessing you want to get married someday and have a family. Tell him that, and also express to him , that you know he's not looking for that and you respect that. And in saying that, tell him you want to move on and wish him the best in life.
Good Luck
2006-06-13 06:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by lvn_sjb06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he does it to show he's listening. I think he does it because he'd rather be talking then listening. He shows his impatience by jumping in and finishing sentences and rambling uh huh uh huh uh huh while you're still talking. Personally, that would drive me nuts. You can tell him how you feel and then keep reminding him when he does it to see if he gets out of the habit. But don't be surprised if he just can't stop -- if he has a constant need to be the center of attention (and be the one talking, not listening), he won't be able to easily change his behavior. And he may not want to.
2016-03-15 03:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He is so annoying I wouldn't worry about His feelings. But I would tell Him as Kindly as possible anyway. He will be hurt no matter what if He cares that much for you!!!
2006-06-13 06:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mrsdonmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain to him that its obviously not meant to be, if you are looking for a commitment and he is not ready to give it to you. It seems like both of your lives are in different places right now and it doesn't make sense to stay together
2006-06-13 06:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by heather_7781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not possible. Trust me, I tried! You just have to be true to yourself and let him down gently. If he cares for you it will be hard, and he will be hurt. Be kind and don't completely cut yourself off from him, take his phone calls but be careful not to lead him on.
That's what I did ;ast time I had to break up with a boy, it didn't go to badly. Go luck!
2006-06-13 06:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And not hurt his feelings huh well you can't LOL no way around it if he really wants to be with you but think positive if he doesn't want to commit maybe he doesn't want to be with you anyways and is wishing you would break up with him!
2006-06-13 06:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by I wanna stay on maternity leave! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your going to hurt his feelings no matter what...but try to do it in a nice way. Just tell him that you need a break and you think you should date other people for a little bit.
2006-06-13 06:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not ready to committ, why worry about his feelings at all when (if he knows you want a committment) he's wasting your time. You could be with the wrong person when the right one could be right in your face!
2006-06-13 06:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Chrystle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's annoying, don't worry about his feelings. Just tell him it's not working and you want to move on. Then do it.
2006-06-13 06:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by mopargrapeape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋