Ok this is weird but here it goes......i had my first baby at the age of 12 and my baby is 3 months old and i am pregnant again and my mom was very mad the first time is was preg. and i don't know how to tell her i am preg again!!!! HELP PLZ!!!
2006-06-13 05:55:45 · 32 answers · asked by babynam2 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
okay im not gonna be mean to you like everyone on here is. i understand your a child but people make mistakes and god doesnt give babies to everyone so there is a reason for the baby you had and are about to have. i would sit your mom down like an adult and tell her. hopefully you are raising your 3 months and not making your mother do it. you were the one who made these babies you need to raise them. be adult about it and after you have this baby do go and get on birth control. god bless you and your babies. i hope the best.
2006-06-13 06:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tyshia G 1 · 9⤊ 1⤋
I think finding a way to tell your mom you are pregnant is the least of your problems. Obviously she is going to be angry. Getting pregnant at age 12 can be explained by youth, inexperience, poor decisions, but doing it again is just plain irresponsible. You knew first hand the consequences of unprotected sex and did it anyway. Now at age 13 with two babies to care for, your mother is faced with the huge task of trying to finish raising you and provide for two more! You and your mom need to seek guidance in your situation. Both of your are going to need strength and faith to get through this. Talk with your mom openly and honestly and get help as soon as you can. Stop having sex! It is not the answer to any problem you have. No amount of sex will make you feel good enough to raise two children when you aren't even old enough to get a job. You need to help your mom help you. Seek help from your church. You and your mom need God in your life right now.
2006-06-13 06:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by h2bfarms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth, that when your 22 you wanted to have a full baseball team... and if your baby is 3 mos old, and your not sposed to have sex for about 6 weeks after you get out of the hospital, take a break!... seriously girl, think about your life and future, for the kids sake at least.
so far as your mom goes i think the omnly thing you could do is be honest, shes prolly done being mad and just very disappointed because your making decisions that wWILL make your life harder at an age when you honestly cant understand what the ful effects of what your doing are...
2006-06-13 06:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by djk15000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that alot of people will probably not like this answer, but you need to get an abortion. Having baby so young is really hard on your body. It takes a mature fully grown women at least a year to recover from a pregnancy. You risk your own health and your baby's health going through with this. You need to tell your mother and she will help you figure out what to do.
2006-06-13 06:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by ajcaruso22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...wow. You didnt learn your lesson the first time???? Babies are a big responsibility, as I am sure you know by now, and it only gets harder, esp if you have more than one! Not to mention, you are so very, very young. I am not going to make this any easier for you...sorry. You need to learn your lesson...if you ever do. As a mom myself, I can imagine how hard this is on your owm mom, and she has every right to be upset. Good luck, and please, for the sake of your child (ren), yourself, and your future, dont let their be a next time. At least not for another 8 years or so.
2006-06-13 06:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are an irresponsible child who doesn't know ANYTHING about contraceptives.
Tell her it is her fault you are like that, because she probably didn't teach you about contraceptives, and she let you go out with guys at such a young age.
Then beg her to finally take responsibility for her child and ground you till you're 16.
Last but not least, close your legs!!! Didn't you learn your lesson the first time?!
2006-06-13 06:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what can she do to you?? NOTHING! I am a mother of a 15 year old. SO I worry all the time. But what will happen will whether I worry or not. You just need to be open and honest with your mom. You were mature enough to lay down with soemone now you have to be mature enough to talk to your mom. maybe take her to lunch and talk to her in a public place so she cant react so bad at first knowledge.
2006-06-13 06:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by feelin_froggy51971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're 12 and pregnant again?? Good luck and expect an *** beating. You'll be fine after your butt heals. By the way,,, try birth control. You'd be known as a hoochie in any state with a record like yours
2006-06-13 06:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by reincarnated/beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a lesson you need to learn for yourself. If you're old enough to have sex and get pregnant, then you're old enough to take responsibility for your actions and take care of your own children. Don't dump them on your mom. Your lucky that she hasn't thrown you out of the house yet. This may be an extremely hard decision, but consider giving the children up for adoption. This will give them the chance to be raised by mature parents who can take care of them and it will give you the opportunity to grow up.
2006-06-13 06:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just tell her...but 12 yrs old havin a baby is a bit extreme...im sixteen and 2 months along...but it wasnt my choice...u had a choice...and the rest of ur life s goin to b thrown away because of this and 2 babies at 12 yrs would b EXTREMELY hard...good luck....
2006-06-13 06:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋