My friend got out of a bad relationship around February/end of January. His girlfriend cut herself, messed with his head, and then said she was too depressed to be in a realtionship (this was his first girlfriend). Even though it's about 4 months later, he's still destroyed from it. We're very close friends, but I don't know what I can do to help him...
2006-06-13 05:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by spazchick816 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
refer him to counseling. other than that make sure he knows that he is not at fault and just listen when he needs to talk.
2006-06-13 05:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by island3girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can do to help him you know but what you can do is have him sit down and talk to you one one one and maybe get some of his feelings out on the table and that will really losen things up then it would be nice if you then evaluate the situation in your eyes after he is finished it would be easier that way after that do something he enjoys doing but if none of that works it would be easier if he works it out on his own e-mail me if you have any more questions.
2006-06-13 13:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him up with another girl. Make it a three sum if it will make him more comfy or just invite him out for dinner and have another girl waiting for you two at the restaurant. Get him talking small talk with her. It should help a little.
If that doesn't work just get him laid. Hey who wouldn't like that?
2006-06-13 13:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a present
2006-06-13 12:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by workinman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and if you still cant help him give him time but if that doesn't work maybe he should talk to a therapist
2006-06-13 12:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by hamda_althani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, and let him know that your there for him. there really isn't more you can do.
2006-06-13 12:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋