She keeps BUGGING me to make all these out of the way plans with her and she always without fail either doesnt show up or call. Im so sick of her. Since im a nice person (too nice sometimes) she takes full advantage. What should i do to her thatll piss her off in a not so obvious way?
2006-06-13 05:24:09 · 3 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you're busy with friends and family and oh so and so just had a really upsetting thing happen so you have to be there for them tonight.......keep making excuses and eventually she'll get the point. Don't let her push you around! She'll find someone else to bully eventually.
2006-06-13 05:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a sucker, always a sucker.
Do not give people the power to use you.
Hindsight should work for you here.
Next time you say: SORRY, I CAN'T HELP YOU THERE, BUT, IF YOU HAVE ONE, I'LL GO! That's all you ever need to remember.
You also don't owe anyone any explaining. Just SORRY, WISH I COULD, BUT, I CAN'T.
You don't gain friend points by being used, you're smart, don't let it happen again.
Invest your precious time and resources in real and good friends.
2006-06-13 05:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should say " well i think that i have had a bunch of parties thanx for telling me to do all those i would appreciate it if maybe we can go out to eat at Starbucks ( a fancy a little bit far away place) and then when she gets there you either fill up a table with your friends so there are no more seats left at that table or don't show up! it WILL work! and she will ask you why you did that and you tell her that she always makes you do things and doesn't show up and that you were giving her a taste of er own medicine
2006-06-13 05:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋