Recently there was a small arguement between me and my wife. After that day we are not at all comfortable with each other. I dont wish to talk and share things with her. Life is boring and miserable.
DO U hAvE anY SuggeStIOn?
2006-06-13 05:18:37 · 13 answers · asked by adcconline 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IF U ARENT HAPPY TRY TO TELL HER...BUT MAKE IT A MUTUAL SITUATION IF UR WILLING TO WORK IT OUT YOU SHOULD BOTH MAKE A LIST OF WHAT BOTHERS YOU ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON BUT U HAVE TO BE MATURE ENOUGH NOT TO SAY SOMETHING WHEN THEY ARE READING THERE LIST AND U CANT GET MAD AND VICE VERSA.......THEN U WORK ON THE NEGATIVES U BOTH HAVE TOGETHER......
2006-06-13 05:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is anything but boring ,now maybe it what you are doing or the way you are thinking is what make your life boring. Now as for sharing not sharing your thought with your wife not only make you a boring person but you should also add stupidly to your list. And if you two can't start comfortable with each other starting right now. Then soon you will be adding divorce to your stupid boring list of things.
2006-06-13 05:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem to me like it was a "small" argument if it has ruined your relationship. Marriage is work. Hard work. Do you love her? I don't mean care about her, I mean LOVE who she is inside? If you don't love the person she is or has become it can be hard to share things with her. Talk to her about the things that are making you uncomfortable. If she doesn't respecft you for wanting to try ,then maybe it's time to move on. If you are right for eachother you should be able to work through it. If you are just bored, try going out with new couples that share your interest. Take a vacation to someplace exciting and face paced (try to avoid Vegas unless she likes strippers and prossitutes LOL).
2006-06-13 05:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it happens that certain arguments hit us so hard that we don't even want to see the other person's face but you're forgetting she is your wife..n i am sure you love her.Don't let a argument spoil your relationship.See your life is getting boring cause of your own self.Try to make it more lively rather than just offing your mood on arguments.Remember those lovely moments which you've spent with your wife.Your life is in your hands.Be more forgiving that would certainly change your attribute towards life.GOOD LUCK
2006-06-13 05:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by PrincEss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that with the limited information you gave us I can only leave you this. It takes two to start a relationship and it takes two to end it, not just one of you. If you are not happy with your relationship then I would suggest you to go to marriage counseling. If you can't afford it then try going to a church that can provide you with guide onhow to improve your relationship. Please by all means don't stop communicating with her.
As a small side to this issue is on a small note, are either of you being unfaithful, if so then I must say that it needs to end or go your seprate ways now before it gets to serious. Again I only want to see you suceed in marriage.
2006-06-13 05:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by sonnys1980cc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different things with her or try sharing things with her. start off with something small if you really want to make it work.
2006-06-13 05:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk that over and if u cant tell eachother anything its best for u 2 not to be together
2006-06-13 05:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♪♫jessy♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get a trip together,if it,s not possible, try go somewhere to think about what best to do.
2006-06-13 05:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ahmad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is boring for me too, all th people in the world and i know a couple ....
2006-06-13 05:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by good guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself and bond with her again....
Think it's uncomfortable with her? Try a stranger....
2006-06-13 05:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋