hi i do alot of singing and also in religion we sing alot and i have been doing so from when i was 4 yearsand now my voice is breaking so i can not sing as high also my dad thinks that i am moving out of my religion as i dont want to sing and evry sunday we have to sing and now i haven't sung in a month because i cant also i dont want to get out of my religio as i am still religiouse!
so what should i do.... also now my dad goes off with my older cousins and leaves me out and uses the whole "i cant sing thing" against me... i need ur help on all of this please!!!!!!
2006-06-13 05:17:41 · 12 answers · asked by DoodleBob 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
It sounds like your voice is changing. Every male goes through this change, some not as dramatic. It is just a part of growing up. When it is finished changing, you may never be able to sing as high as you did, but then again you may end up with a "heavenly voice".
Good Luck!
2006-06-13 05:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by mama_wizard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, first of all - it is perfectly natural for a male's voice to get deeper as he gets older. You may not be able to sing in the range that you once could have. Maybe try to sing an octive lower if you DO want to continue to sing. Try not to let the sound of your voice bother you so much that you are so self-concious about singing. HE and I mean HE doesn't care what you sound like.
As far as your dad - he is just misunderstanding the situation. By not participating he feels threatened that you are going to leave something that is important for him and he feels is important for you.
Take a deep breath, find an octive that works for you, and sing the best that you can. That is the only thing HE asks for.
2006-06-13 05:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it your voice is changing. It doesn't mean you can't still sing when it is done. Your father is being very narrow minded about this. Just because you don't want to sing right now has no bearing on how religious you are! Your voice will calm down. Talk to your Minister (Priest?), see if they can intervene with your Father and explain how you feel. He might listen to them. Be patient, things will get better.
2006-06-13 05:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by mopargrapeape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is another example for the senseless cruelty of religious people.
How can a father take against his own boy when his voice breaks, which is a normal and natural process that happens to very male? It is beyond me.
If I was you, I would begin to use my brain and see through the web of lies religions spin around us. And when your voice is through the breaking process, you can resume singing whatever and where you want. There are plenty of opportunities to sing, and most of them do not put you in a religious straight-jacket.
2006-06-13 05:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sean F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i am a muslim. I discover Islam thru personal effort-not parental. Perhaps when you do something so much and you forget to ask the question why? The question ask you the why. This is the time to ask yourself why you take so much time to sing to a God that did not need music nor the instrument to acknowledge wordhip.
Perhaps this is the time to really find the real God and what He really and truly wants and desire for worship. You'd do yorself a world of good if you the the asking yourself. Go do researches and discover God. Until then you may be deceiving yourself and deluding yourself in what is not it.
Think friend.....
2006-06-13 06:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by mikail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need a break from singing for a while. Try singing a little softer. Volume isn't everything. Bless you, and good luck!
2006-06-13 05:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can ya just approach him and tell him the truth? His voice must have broken at some point, so I'm sure he would understand...
If not, maybe ask your mother or someone else close to explain?
Plus, don't be embarrassed ---- if it DIDN'T break would be when you need to worry, really!!!
2006-06-17 19:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok,you don't say your age,but it sounds like you are hitting puberty.Remind dad that at one point his voice changed too,if possible,have his mom remind him! also,ask Dad what singing has to do with spending time together? and tell him you still love him and God and this will never change in you.
2006-06-13 05:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Maw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait your voice will change again. Sometimes you cant sing ofter a voice change sometimes you can. You will have to wait and see.
2006-06-13 05:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad about it. You cant help changes in your voice and im sure if you discuss this with him he'll understand.
2006-06-13 05:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by pipi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋