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Question

ok i went to disney world about 2 weeks ago i met a boy and we where down there for a month staying in a hotel and he asked me to go out with him i said yes sowe was going out for about 3 and a halfe weeks and one of those days we had sex i had my own hotel room and plus my parents was not next door.she the second time we had sex we didnt use a condom what is the possibility of me getting pregnant.he said if i was pregnant he will take care of the of the child.but im scared if my parents find out im going to be in a lot of trouble.because i was a virgin befor i met him and im only 13

Answer 1

It's very possible you could get pregnant by not using birth control, especially if it was when you were ovulating. I would suggest waiting to see if you miss your period, and then take a test. There are also pregnancy tests that you can take up to 5 days before your next period. If you cannot buy a pregnancy test without your parents finding out, you can go to a free clinic that is specifically for pregnancy. They will give you a test for free and also counsel you if you are pregnant. You can probably find a listing in the yellow pages of your local phone book for one of these clinics. I hope from now on you will wait until you are older to have sex.

Answer 2

First of all, what is the relationship you have with your parents? If you feel like you can talk to them, please do. Most parents are very understanding, and want to help you IF you find out you are pregnant. If you feel like they might take drastic measures and disown you, try and talk to a counselor at school or a church leader for some help in talking to your parents. Both your parents and/or other trusted adults can help you find out if pregnancy has happened. Many people have had the misconception that I can't get pregnant the first time, we can NEVER be 100% that we will or won't.
I am sure this is a scary time for you, but please ask someone for guidence. You should never go through something like this alone. Be careful about sex, because you never know if the other person has any diseases, or even really cares about you, to help. Look for someone you trust to help you out.
I wish you luck, and I hope this helps at least a little.

Answer 3

Assuming a regular 28 day cycle, the chances of becoming pregnant are higher if the sex happened between days 8 and 16, if you count day 1 as the first day of your last period. If you miss your next expected period, use a home pregnancy test, they can be bought at any pharmacy. Your body hasn't finished developing yet, so a pregnancy could bey painful and dangerous for you. Good luck.

Answer 4

Wow that was really irresponsible of you. Your only 13? My sister just turned 15, and she isnt even thinking about sex. You didn't even know this boy at all, you just met him.... and you were just on vacation, so you could never see that boy ever again! You should have thought about what you were doing before you did it! You just betta hope your not pregnant... your parents will not be easy on you, your still a kid yourself. Why would you want to have to have a baby, when your still one? Do you think you can take care of a baby by yourself? No, you can't even work yet.... so you should have thought of that before... and you should go and talk to your parents now and let them know what's going on!!!!

Answer 5

first off....he is just a boy you met down there...you don't even know him that well and you shouldn't have had sex with him. and you are only 13. you shouldn't be having sex at such a young age. hunny....i'm 19 and i'm still a virgin and there isn't nothing wrong with it. i have much more things to worry about than "when will i lose my virginity" the thing on my mind right now is "will my boyfriend be going to Iraq" you should be worry about school not sex and being pregnant. you have alot of life to live.

Answer 6

Oh my God.. i'm so sorry..i don want to blame u, when your're young ,you tend to make mistakes. You might just be pregnant. please get a home pregnancy kit or tell you're mom. Its for the best..they'll yell abit, but thats just a one day thing! Then they'll take care of u! And Suppose you are pregnant , and wanna have the baby, how can u take care of it? A 13 yr old with a baby is gonna make all the wrong headlines honey:( Plus some nasty rumours and could cause your young body a lot of harm:(Take ypur doctor's advice. i guess you'll be advised abortion..hope u'll be able to handle everything..take care and God bless..hope all goes well.. hope u get your period!

Answer 7

ok first your 13 dont have sex untill u r really ready stuff can happen and can last the rest of your life like aids, having a kid or anything else. talk to you parents let them know no matter what u think they might do. belive me they will always love u no matter what u do. i am a mom and there is nothing my kids could do that would make me not love them. if u want to keep the baby good luck its not easy. and if u r not having a baby at least your parent know and they will trust u to talk to them no matter what happens. so i hope u the best of luck.

Answer 8

In my opinion, if you don't know the process for conceiving a child and how your menstrual cycle works, then you have absolutely no business having sex. How can you expect to care for a baby if you don't even know how you made it? Go tell you parents, and keep your friggin legs closed. Didn't your parents talk with you about this stuff?

Answer 9

Sweetie you need to talk to your parents about this. Even though they may be upset at first....I'm sure they will help you through the situation. And boys sometimes make promises they don't keep...so be careful and be prepared to take responsibility for your actions. Good Luck.

Answer 10

You are too young to have sex, let alone have a baby! If you are pregnant, I am sure your parents will be upset, but hopefully will allow you to keep the child if it is your wish. Good luck to you!