The Man (30) has a good job and lives in an apartment where he lives. The woman (50) has a house and 3 grown kids where she lives. Who should move? The Man Or The Woman?
2006-06-13 04:49:05 · 12 answers · asked by Russell 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Maybe both; unless it's a little 1 sided of course, or if neither are actually as in love as they think! In my hiumble opinion its best that you both leave your own areas and lives so you have the best chance of beginning a new one together- if not then its usually the one who HAS moved that suffers first and who is ~@ a big disadvantage from the off (not knowing people; worse still is not knowing the people who your new partner may have known 4 yrs, is ****-take it from me!) There's also not knowing the area and the biggest by far for me was being away from MY loved ones and friends while watching my fella 24-7 in the loving bosom of HIS. Meet in the middle if you both mean so much to the other!
2006-06-13 06:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well it isn't as cut and dry as you make it out to be. I would have to say that because the children are grown and you didn't mention her working that the woman would move. If the man moved and the woman didn't have a job what would they use as an income if the man couldn't find a comparable job.
2006-06-13 11:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by peachmonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think man should move since he has less stuff to move and locating the kids would be kinda difficult (of course depends on the ages) She wouldn`t wanna leave her kids anyways, Best way Man should move.
2006-06-13 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by mayhemstd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has zero to do with male or female, and 100% to do with current life situation.
I say the person who will have the least dramatic impact in their life by changing their geography.
It works out best when one partner wants to make the change in local.
2006-06-13 13:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by man_about_the_net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mutual decision, not only based on money, but also the kids, and so forth, would be best. maybe all could get a fresh start and have both move!
2006-06-13 11:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by peters_the_3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the kids are grown and out of the house,and if she has no more obligations then she should move, but keep the house (sublet it)
2006-06-13 11:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman. Neiher one of them are going to need her kids raggin' on them.
2006-06-13 12:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whomever makes less money should move.
2006-06-13 20:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the woman is too old for taht man..i think
2006-06-13 12:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by alex_rock guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoever feels like it
or both move and both start over.
2006-06-13 21:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Theo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋