People do not try to keep the marriage by changing their wrong doing in order to reconcile with their spouses. Instead, they use international dating or new mate finding websites as a means to meet new women or men to build new relationships and leave the ones they have for years. The immoral spouse do not have to become better persons but easily decide to move on for there are many opportunities in the internet to move on. They continue deceive themselves that their bad behaviors are accepted by other people out there who do not know the truth. We should be able to stop this abusive behavior that destroys the marriage and the lives of the children due to broken families as result of this dangerous opportunity.
2006-06-13 04:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by Serina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why fight it. People are gunna cheat no matter how they meet!
2006-06-13 04:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internent is just one of the oppotunities, if this is stopped what of other ones.Think about, is it not a height of immorality to date someone online? I believe such pepopple must have exausted their territory and now took an advanced step to a larger community. The problem is not with the internet opportunity but with the MINDS of such pple.People shd rather be encouraged to hold on their marriages and not 2 go in and out as lawyers do in court.Pgm/topics that discourages divorce shd be made as popular as dating pgms where pple who have successful marriages share their experiences.Councellors made available to attend to pples problems
2006-06-13 11:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by mitee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to ever stop this as it is a choice as adults to do this just like you cannot make someone love you or be there for you. Just like you cannot make someone not have an abortion or cheat in person or real life either... Life is about choices and we choose to either make right or wrong ones... Wrong choices will ultimately lead to a path of distruction though and eternal damnation. the only way to stop it in the house is to not have the internet or a computer at all in the home or at work. Like is said impossible and if the pc is at home passwords are great too!
2006-06-13 11:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post their names on the web. An alternate site that monitors this
type of behavior is as much a deterent as we see of these child
abusers being outed on television.
2006-06-13 11:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by plato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me the only way to really stop it is for married couple to be more willing to put in all the work that is necessary.. On both the one cheating and the one being cheated on. Many time the other party knows or haws idea about what is going on and still the chose to not do anything about it. As far as online line cheating get rid of the internet who needs the D**n thing anyways
2006-06-13 11:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by LoTs2ShArE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most men do this for the sex....most of the time ...well a lot of the time men want to explore sex further..try new ways..more kinky.. give into each other in all sex ways...as long as you are just the both of you ...if 3rd parties become involved(and you know what i mean) then your gonna have problems on down the line...be open to each other about what the both of you want...sex wise...lets face it if the man/woman isn't getting what they need from his/hers spouse then ther gonna look somewhere else...keep the sex lively overcome the shyness to each other...you gotta try as much as possible to please each other
2006-06-13 11:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by oneloveva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if we got rid of computers, internet, cell phones, wired phones and automobiles. Then if we required all people to work from their homes and leave their home only when they are accompanied by their spouse. And we banned all social events like parties and gatherings. Yes, I think that would do it.
2006-06-13 11:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about you mind your own business? People have commited adultry LONG before the internet..
2006-06-13 11:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by J J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like Pop up blocker, introduce a ADULTERY BLOCKER
2006-06-13 11:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by sikandar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋