2006-06-13 04:18:49 · 16 answers · asked by kaykngirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is looking at it every day and for hours I would say he has an addiction. If you ask him if he could go on the rest of his life without looking at it and he says no then he has a problem. Basically porn doesn't help anyone...they believe it does but it doesn't. Research and see how many marriages or relationships it has broken off. You just asking this questions raises a red flag. Best wishes.
2006-06-13 04:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by mtv8r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Boyfriend Should Not Be Looking At Porn If He's Got A Girlfriend. You Should Get A Web-Blocker To Block Those Sites.
2006-06-13 04:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys look at porn. It doesnt mean he doesnt liek you, guys jus can't really resist that impulse. It's like a mental drug, they like the feelign that comes with the excitment. I woulndt worry about it. Unless he's lied to you about looking at it or spend hours on end doing it then i'd be concerned. If he just keeps it secret from you and you just so happened to find out or walk in or something he's probably not too proud of it. Don't blow up at him, he's just being a natural guy. They only have a mere phisical attraction to the girls, (nameless girls) they don't have the emotional connection like he has with you. He won't leave you for porn.
2006-06-13 04:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by candiecorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing unusual about guys looking at porn on the net (I'm a female with a lot of experience behind me)--- you aren't going to find too many guys who won't look at or want to look at porn. IT'S NORMAL. How are we supposed to set a time limit though? I mean is he on there 24/7 with no life? Then there's a problem. Personally, I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-06-13 04:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything done to excess is a problem. However since you have not told us how much porn or why he is ignoring (if at all) you I would say its not a problem at present. Why not use the porn as foreplay! My wife and I often watch porn while engaged in foreplay. Be part of this with him!
2006-06-13 04:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is a huge problem. Avoid it like you would a deadly disease, because it can be that destructive. I know guys that have ruined their lives because of porn. They have had to go into porn rehab. I'd tell him it's you or the porn!
2006-06-13 04:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by six.pack.abs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it all depends on how you feel about it. If he is only watching porn and not giving you any there is a problem! If your getting more cool. You could always turn the tables and see how he likes it.
2006-06-13 04:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please. Give the guy a break. Never understood why women get so upset over this. Just looking is not bad, as long as he is only looking and you are who he is doing the funky monkey with who cares? Maybe he is getting ideas to liven up your sex life? Give guys a break ladies... it's just porn... so what? We have our shopping they have their porn. Sheesh! I don't get the big deal. Either women are getting entirely too insecure or too vain. Either way we need to lighten up ladies.
2006-06-13 04:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by purple dove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man watches porn all the time. it is becomming a problem in our relationship. he now sneeks around to watch. i always find something on the computer that he's watched. it's degrating and it will start to me you have questions.if you figure out how to get him to stop you let me know bc i've been trying for awhile and nothing is working.i can't take it any more. good luck with yours
2006-06-13 04:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how many he does that i think though! (I think if it is not to much 1 or 2 in a month) Every guy does that sometime... I dont know any of my friends that haven't watched to porn...! And you could tell me "You are perverse!" It just is... :S That is one of our weakness(es) :S
2006-06-13 04:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by mikeranjero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋