my wife wants to try it. is it good. and is it safe? thanks@!!!
2006-06-13 04:13:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, some women do like it. If she has never tried anything "back there" before, you have to be patient and take a lot of time preparing her. She also needs to relax. Any time she wants to stop, STOP!!! You don't want to hurt her. Now what I would suggest doing is to get a good quality lubricant,( Astroglide, KY, etc.). Use a rubber glove so you do not scratch her. Now with one finger, lube her hole and your finger. work it in and out S L O W L Y !!! Work it all around until she is looser. Then try a second finger. Work it until it loosens. Then try a third. When/IF she feels that it is time to move on to bigger things, lube yourself up and S L O W L Y attempt to enter her. It may not happen the first attempt. Remember, that hole is designed as an exit, so there is not any natural lube there and it is going to feel odd to her system to have something entering it. Her natural instinct is to want to reject it. Be patient with her and with any luck it will happen. If it does, enjoy. It can be very pleasurable to both of you if done gently and lovingly, but remember... patience, lube, and relaxation.
2006-06-13 04:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some do, yes.
"There's no delicate way to put this, so I'll just quote the survey report: "For males, the proportion who have had anal sex with a female increases from 4.6 percent at age 15 to 34 percent at ages 22–24; for females, the proportion who have had anal sex with a male increases from 2.4 percent at age 15 to 32 percent at age 22–24." One in three women admits to having had anal sex by age 24. By ages 25 to 44, the percentages rise to 40 for men and 35 for women. "
In general, it is reasonably safe. Use condoms and plenty of water-based lubrication. Proceed slowly. Use good judgment.
2006-06-13 11:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow. Use plenty of lube and a condom. Both of you lay on your side (spooning) and try entry that way. It doesn't hurt as bad. I know a lot of women that love it. You can give her great orgasms. This all depends on the woman.
2006-06-13 11:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by countrychick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl i know decided she wanted to try anal. She liked it so she decided to do it more, and more. One day her boyfriend hit a nerve in her *** and she **** all over the place. They broke up the next day.
Does that answer your question?
2006-06-14 16:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shamus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife does on occasion. In a monogamous relationship, it is safe. Use a good lube, have her relax, and take your time.
2006-06-14 07:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be very good and rewarding for the women when done right. and yes it is safe as long as your well lubricated and slow.
2006-06-13 12:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nascar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do. I do. The first attempt for me hurted (I mean nothing's been in there before). But after a few tries when you first attempt it it feels weird but after a while you can get an orgasm from that quicker!!!
Can't believe i'm answering this question.
2006-06-13 11:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by KamayaS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO- it is very painful and I am sure that she will change her mind the moment you start trying to get in. Just make sure you use protection-condom so you don't get any infection.
2006-06-13 12:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm.. I've never tried it but I heard that it hurts a lot. use lubricants!!! and maybe the frst time with condom. good luck
2006-06-13 11:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do.. some don't.. But if she is willing.. Just go slow..
2006-06-13 11:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by J J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋